Need persuasion for a PA, lorum and/or guiche (when can I remove briefly for sex?)

[Mazzy]

Hope it goes well.

From a female perspective, I think a PA defo adds something. Hope your wife finds it the same.

Lol... I am glad you posted this Miss Fi. I didn't want to before as I thought it was too much mans talk on here and I shouldn't be on it lol... Yes, someone who my mum used to know - her boyfriend at the time had one and she said it was the best nookie she has ever had. *I cannot believe I have just posted this*.

[TikiMan]

We Love you Mazzy..... and your poor Mum

[Boo]

Lol... I am glad you posted this Miss Fi. I didn't want to before as I thought it was too much mans talk on here and I shouldn't be on it lol... Yes, someone who my mum used to know - her boyfriend at the time had one and she said it was the best nookie she has ever had. *I cannot believe I have just posted this*.

I have had experience with someone with a 2mm PA and didn't really notice much, the guy with an 8mm though, ouch - my cervix (admittedly it is a little "low") didn't like it in certain positions shall we say.

My fella has a frenum ladder and it's fun lol. He's even considering ribbing/beading on the other side which I think would be awesome from a sexual and aesthetic point as well haha!

For most though and yes I've said it loooooads on here, it's what is going on in the mind. It's exciting even if you can't "detect" it for many (piercee and/or partner). Yet some won't like it. Thing is, you'll never know until you try!

As for the OP please do only get it if you feel 100% about it. There's no rush and you should never (in my opinion) feel you have to be talked into or strongly encouraged to get a piercing (mild encouragement is fine!). If you really want it then you'll get it. And at the end of the day, if it doesn't work out then the nice thing is that you can just take it out and learn from there.

[davemeddows]

Thank Boo,

No I definitely don't feel pressured into it. It is my mind that has been trying to pressure the part of me that is nervous about it and it really just took one evening of not clearly think of the parts I am nervous about to make the appointment. Now that it's made I feel excited and right about it. I feel like the things that were holding me back before, although still present, I am forcing myself to face them since I've already made an appointment. Yes I know I can always cancel it, but I really know I won't because I really am excited about the end product. Not just the journey there. I know some like the whole experience and maybe I will as this is going to be my first and second piercings. I have just been living in a different frame of mind seeing some friends pass away this past year and telling myself to stop thinking about doing things I want to do and just do them.

Now to read up on the forums on some post piercings care... Only 3 more days...

[Boo]

Nervous is totally understandable! Aftercare should be explained in full verbally and in writing by your piercer. Just make sure you're going to someone excellent and highly skilled in the piercing you're getting and you'll be great

[Miss Fi]

U can do it! Will be so worth it!!

[mat]

Did you say something in an earlier post in this thread about having more than one piercing done at the same time? Maybe I got that wrong. I definitely wouldn't do that myself, it doesn't seem quite right as our bodies need a little time to heal before more piercings in the same area but I might be wrong. Besides, I've always looked forward to getting the next piercing.

By the way, I took my PA out quite a while ago (it was stretched to 5mm and over 10 years old) and since then I really have missed it a lot. I had assumed the hole had closed up completely. To my surprise I found I could get a much smaller ring through quite easily, so I think I'll gradually work back up to where I was.

So if you do decide to go ahead and get a PA, hope it goes well for you!

[TikiMan]

Did you say something in an earlier post in this thread about having more than one piercing done at the same time? Maybe I got that wrong. I definitely wouldn't do that myself, it doesn't seem quite right as our bodies need a little time to heal before more piercings in the same area but I might be wrong. Besides, I've always looked forward to getting the next piercing.

By the way, I took my PA out quite a while ago (it was stretched to 5mm and over 10 years old) and since then I really have missed it a lot. I had assumed the hole had closed up completely. To my surprise I found I could get a much smaller ring through quite easily, so I think I'll gradually work back up to where I was.

So if you do decide to go ahead and get a PA, hope it goes well for you!

Hi Mat,
Generally I always get two piercings as it works out cheaper plus there's a bigger adrenaline rush .
I've always healed up fine but I wouldn't push it more than that really. Everyone is different though.
Great news about your PA. Welcome back into the fold

All the best for Wednesday Davemeddows

[mat]

Yep all the best from me too. I'm sure everyone will respect your decision on whether to go ahead on Wednesday or not.

Whatever you do, don't allow it to become a barrier or a dispute with your wife. Your relationship with your wife is far more important (in my view) than any piercing.

[Mazzy]

We Love you Mazzy..... and your poor Mum

Thank you. To be fair this was a long time ago way back when hardly anyone had such a piercing. Lol... I had to enlighten my poor mum and often still do. My Mum hasn't really been the same since lol...