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    Again it's often going to be trial and error with such things. If you want an apadravya or an ampallang then wait until you're not healing anything else, why is your gf not happy about it?

    Btw by bf has 5 frenum piercings and they don't bother me during intercourse but I've known girls to not like the feeling of 1!
    Piercings: 6 lobes, 2 12mm stretched lobes, 4 helices, 3 tragus, daith, 2 nostril, 2.4mm VCH, 2.4mm daith
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    I will check the forum here about apadravya and ampallang, but I think both cause significant pain while having. I am not sure though.

    She (my gf) does not like the idea of male (or even female) genital piercing, despite the fact she doesn't feel any adverse issue now with my one frenum. In the long term, I am very keen to go for a frenum ladder or at least have three-four frenums, but she hates the idea of modifying the genital. So I think I will have to be happy with just another frenum and maybe a lorum too.

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    Ah I see, she just doesn't like them, fair enough and yes they do hurt but it's a trade-off for a lovely piercing.
    Piercings: 6 lobes, 2 12mm stretched lobes, 4 helices, 3 tragus, daith, 2 nostril, 2.4mm VCH, 2.4mm daith
    Modifications: 5mm septum punch,
    coinslot ear cartilage removal, 5mm conch punch
    Cosmetic Modifications: Scar removal x6, semi permanent eyebrows, semi permanent eyeliner, lip dermal filler, botox
    Retired Piercings: 3 nipple, tongue, 4 philtrum, 4 eyebrow, 2 outer labia, VCH, 1 lobe, rook, nostril, 3 nape MDs, 2 wrist MDs, septum, 3 upper conch, conch, 5 helices
    Tattoos: 91 hours
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    Thanks again, Hazel, for patiently listening to my concerns and replying to all my queries. I will research about the pain level of these two piercings and convince and make my gf read about them as well (I have little hope though.).

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    If your girlfriend isn't happy about it she must have her reasons whatever they are, if you have a good solid long term relationship I suggest you respect her concerns. If either of you choose to end the relationship then I suggest you look for a new partner who is into piercings !
    Current : Left ear lobe 18g gold ring 10mm ID,
    Both nipples 10g 12mm ID BCR ,
    Reverse Prince Albert 2g 25mm curved SS Barbell with 11mm balls.
    Septum at 10g Horseshoe !

    Retired : Pubic piercing 10g 12mm ID, due to starting Ball Stretching Adventure !

    Tattoo's, Upper & lower arms. Upper legs & both shoulders, long forgotten how many hours !

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    Quote Originally Posted by Roverr View Post
    Thanks again, Hazel, for patiently listening to my concerns and replying to all my queries. I will research about the pain level of these two piercings and convince and make my gf read about them as well (I have little hope though.).
    You're welcome.

    It's very difficult when one partner doesn't like the modification plans of another. I think time, patience, trust and a lot of education is key rather than being pushy or anything. Ask her what her actual concerns are and see if they can be addressed in a manner that suits you both. Respect works two ways after all

    Good luck!
    Piercings: 6 lobes, 2 12mm stretched lobes, 4 helices, 3 tragus, daith, 2 nostril, 2.4mm VCH, 2.4mm daith
    Modifications: 5mm septum punch,
    coinslot ear cartilage removal, 5mm conch punch
    Cosmetic Modifications: Scar removal x6, semi permanent eyebrows, semi permanent eyeliner, lip dermal filler, botox
    Retired Piercings: 3 nipple, tongue, 4 philtrum, 4 eyebrow, 2 outer labia, VCH, 1 lobe, rook, nostril, 3 nape MDs, 2 wrist MDs, septum, 3 upper conch, conch, 5 helices
    Tattoos: 91 hours
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    Good advice o wise one !
    Current : Left ear lobe 18g gold ring 10mm ID,
    Both nipples 10g 12mm ID BCR ,
    Reverse Prince Albert 2g 25mm curved SS Barbell with 11mm balls.
    Septum at 10g Horseshoe !

    Retired : Pubic piercing 10g 12mm ID, due to starting Ball Stretching Adventure !

    Tattoo's, Upper & lower arms. Upper legs & both shoulders, long forgotten how many hours !

    Ball Stretching Weights, 38 x 30 521g & 40 x 15 234g making a total of 755g at present. More to be added !



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    Thanks, Hazel and Mouse. We have been in the relationship for more than three years and are eyeing a future together. I do respect her a lot for everything and for the piercing issue as well I respect whatever opinion she has. However, as Hazel suggests, it will require some time, patient and education. Unlike earlier, now she doesn't mind my frenum at all and this gives me hope that in future she will be ok with my graduation progression to having a frenum ladder or a glan piercing. I will try to make her read some forums and frequently discuss with her piercing related topics so that she gets over her awkward feelings of having his man's genital pierced.

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    Sounds like you have given it a lot of thought, I'm sure you will work it out.
    Current : Left ear lobe 18g gold ring 10mm ID,
    Both nipples 10g 12mm ID BCR ,
    Reverse Prince Albert 2g 25mm curved SS Barbell with 11mm balls.
    Septum at 10g Horseshoe !

    Retired : Pubic piercing 10g 12mm ID, due to starting Ball Stretching Adventure !

    Tattoo's, Upper & lower arms. Upper legs & both shoulders, long forgotten how many hours !

    Ball Stretching Weights, 38 x 30 521g & 40 x 15 234g making a total of 755g at present. More to be added !



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    Thanks, Mouse. A couple of weeks of surfing this forum and some others has intensely aroused my interest in genital piercing actually. Especially after having a frenum and liking it very much, I am extremely keen to try some others. I am hopeful that one day I will have them and my gf would be happy with it as well.

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