I want all my piercings to match so i want to buy the bar in advance of getting it done but there are so many different lengths, i see 38mm seems to be the standard for for a new piercing i will of course need extra space for swelling but is there a standard size for new piercings? I've measured my ear to approx where i would expect the piercing to go and it is around 36-38mm.
Can anyone advise? thank you!