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    Oh Katie you poor thing. I can only imagine and empathise with what you're going through, it sounds so difficult and upsetting. Remember the best way to be there for her is to be there for yourself and allow yourself time to cry/be angry/do what ever it is you need to do. I'm always about if you need to chat anytime and if you want any info on grieving processes those with terminal illnesses (and those close to them) can go through don't hesitate to let me know and I can send you stuff over, sometimes it really helps to know what we're going through is normal *massive massive squishes*
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    Quote Originally Posted by polythene_girl View Post
    I think my dad was right when he told me to prepare myself for this year :( I had such high hopes that something could be done for my best friend. She's sought out a second opinion since being diagnosed as terminal, but I think it might be too late. She's sleeping the majority of the time lately, and she's in a fair bit of pain. I feel lost.
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    Thank you, all of you. Think I'm just having a weepy day, sometimes I need to let it all out and then I'm OK. Times like this I miss my guin cuddles, he always knew when I was upset. Jess is too busy barking at a black bag that's stuck in the tree, I'm not sure what she thinks it is bless her.
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    Sometimes when I'm sad and weepy the cats just look at me like "the hells wrong with you human?!" and then others they seem to get it and are sweet. Mostly it's option one though..
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    Quote Originally Posted by polythene_girl View Post
    Thank you, all of you. Think I'm just having a weepy day, sometimes I need to let it all out and then I'm OK. Times like this I miss my guin cuddles, he always knew when I was upset. Jess is too busy barking at a black bag that's stuck in the tree, I'm not sure what she thinks it is bless her.
    She's protecting you ^_^
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    Hehe, cats make me laugh. Do they usually go for option two if it'snear feeding time? I've noticed jess doing that, clever pup she is. Totally driven by her stomach xD I wish my dad was here, he's working in Manchester all week. He's staying at ancoats too, moaning about the fact he can barely get a leg in the bath hehe.
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    Haha how did you know?! They're softest when we/they are sleepy or they're hungry!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Hazel View Post
    She's protecting you ^_^
    It's pretty funny to watch, she doesn't have a hope of getting near it but she's been leaping around the garden all day.
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    Right now I'm thinking that this essay (on grief models) is actually really hitting a nerve, especially writing about Kubler-Ross and her work with the terminally ill. Such a poorly timed essay for me after last week.
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    Quote Originally Posted by polythene_girl View Post
    Thank you, all of you. Think I'm just having a weepy day, sometimes I need to let it all out and then I'm OK. Times like this I miss my guin cuddles, he always knew when I was upset. Jess is too busy barking at a black bag that's stuck in the tree, I'm not sure what she thinks it is bless her.
    I majorly miss my lil boy, he always knew too, he'd come over for cuddles and lick my face. Now we've got four lovely but incredibly thick pets haha, the only time they're happy to see you is when food's involved.
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