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    People who can't accept me for who I am, ups and downs, good and bad etc.
    People who are overly distant or clingy
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    Wow.. lot of very specific checklists here. Aside from the fundamentals of trust, emotional/actual honesty and obvious attraction i couldn't much give a damn.. given those basics it comes down then to chemistry, and in that i am more concerned with someones spirit/nature than much else. Give me someone with a good heart all day long.



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    - Lack of drive and general enthusiasm... I'm a very driven person, who thrives on 'getting things done'. Consquently, I have no respect for people who can't get motivated or can't help themselves.

    - Indecisiveness... There is nothing worse than living with someone who can't make up their mind. Simple things like planning a holiday become impossible without the input of your partner. It's also quite stressful when you're relied on for everything.

    - Poor hygiene.... Been there, never again!

    - No money/ no job/ general poor finance... Been there, never again! People have taken me for a ride before, and now I point blank refuse to share my finances with anybody earning less than me. Sounds harsh, but it's the truth.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Anomander View Post
    Wow.. lot of very specific checklists here. Aside from the fundamentals of trust, emotional/actual honesty and obvious attraction i couldn't much give a damn.. given those basics it comes down then to chemistry, and in that i am more concerned with someones spirit/nature than much else. Give me someone with a good heart all day long.
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    Quote Originally Posted by redraven View Post
    Having been in a relationship for over 12 years it's hard for me to think of ones aside from the totally obvious. However sometimes you don't know what you can put up with until it happens to you and to what extent. I'm not a believer of the 'he/she can't change' brigade either. Also some of the above and the obvious I mentioned earlier could come from physical or psychological illness so I wouldn't say I would walk out on someone who needed medical help. Lying is a big one as is manipulation but again, all depends to what extent. /serious waffle
    I completely agree with you. Been with my man over 8 years now and I'd say infidelity would be a deal breaker.... but you don't know how you'd deal with something until it happens.

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    If she hated animals... something about me and people who hate animals doesn't sit right, relationship or not.

    Overall though, I guess I'm similar to others... there's the 'obvious' stuff like paedophilia, racism and the like, but as far as other 'less extreme' things go, as said previously by others it can depend on the person - I mean some people put up with a hell of a lot of crap from those rare, few people who have in some way, taken hold of their hearts, that they'd NEVER put up with from others. There are those that might break every rule in your book, but they see you like others don't and vice versa, so something sticks. It might not be the healthiest of relationships, but you're still there, sticking by each other through the very thick and the waif-like thin and no, not because you're with them because you're 'too scared to be alone'. I guess if I feel like crap most of the time, if I feel trapped or like it's not going anywhere and we're clearly not compatible as people, that'll do it for me. The reasons could always vary though...
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    Cheating and lying. I could never be with someone who isn't faithful or completely honest with me. I think keeping secrets is stupid and harmful to the relationship.
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    Quote Originally Posted by tacosareyummeh View Post
    Cheating and lying. I could never be with someone who isn't faithful or completely honest with me. I think keeping secrets is stupid and harmful to the relationship.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Anomander View Post
    Wow.. lot of very specific checklists here. Aside from the fundamentals of trust, emotional/actual honesty and obvious attraction i couldn't much give a damn.. given those basics it comes down then to chemistry, and in that i am more concerned with someones spirit/nature than much else. Give me someone with a good heart all day long.
    100% agree with you on that one.
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