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    Quote Originally Posted by Laura - Marie View Post
    But, theres always the risk of the casual thing becomeing an attachment, even if its the other person thats attached to you, then feelings can get hurt
    Very true, I suppose you just need to be clear from the outset...not always that easy though.

    That sucks Caz....I do the same, tell people what they should be doing but don't actually act on my own suggestions myself.

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    talk things over so it doesnt just spring up one day and make a future argument worse, always talk things over.
    That was a hard lesson for me to learn... we nearly split up because we didn't talk enough. I'd mull over something for months, then it'd all come out suddenly and we'd fall out hugely.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Cinnamon_Spider View Post
    Very true, I suppose you just need to be clear from the outset...not always that easy though.

    That sucks Caz....I do the same, tell people what they should be doing but don't actually act on my own suggestions myself.

    I tell myself that everyone's like that! But I am making a concerted effort from now on to be a bit less preachy and a bit more focussed. I think it'll last until I wake up tomorrow morning and go back to my everyday drudgery. :P
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    Quote Originally Posted by Foostar View Post
    That was a hard lesson for me to learn... we nearly split up because we didn't talk enough. I'd mull over something for months, then it'd all come out suddenly and we'd fall out hugely.
    yup it always sucks when that happens if anythings bothering me now that includes my boyfriend i tell him and talk it out and we're better off for it
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    Quote Originally Posted by Felidae View Post
    yup it always sucks when that happens if anythings bothering me now that includes my boyfriend i tell him and talk it out and we're better off for it
    Same for me - although I still forget sometimes, or find it hard to broach a subject.
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    yeah sometimes it can be better to keep things to yourself if you know it'll just cause unnecessary upset but it can be difficult to differentiate between silly things and important things sometimes lol
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    i've been single for precisely 4 days we were together for 3 years and two days exactly. i'm sad, but i'm relieved. now i can move on with my life and be young and free again!

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    I haven't been single since I was 14. I honestly have no idea what it's like to be without a relationship. It's a fear of mine - should this all fall apart, I'd be totally lost.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Foostar View Post
    I haven't been single since I was 14. I honestly have no idea what it's like to be without a relationship. It's a fear of mine - should this all fall apart, I'd be totally lost.
    im with you on that one, i can't imagine myself without Derrick now, when i imagine my future he's always in it
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