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    Makes sense and I will only say just be careful and out yourself first. That said I want the best for you cos I'm totally biased and don't know him lol!

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    Thank you and I shall. And the break gave me the kick I needed to finally sort myself out mentally. I'd been struggling with anxiety and depression for years and he helped me so much and I was so close to beating it, and now I finally have! But I'm still going to have counselling to talk out and try and deal with everything I possibly can so I can get as far away from it as I can. Haha he knows it's a lot to ask for us to get back together after him not wanting a relationship for now as he doesn't know how long that will last, it's almost annoying that he's been so kind and understanding - would be easier if I could hate him haha, but then again maybe not!

    Thanks again <3
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    No problem hun, always here ^_^
    Piercings: 6 lobes, 2 12mm stretched lobes, 4 helices, 3 tragus, daith, 2 nostril, 2.4mm VCH, 2.4mm daith
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    Argh my brain is mashed.
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    You okay Becky?
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    Yeah I'll be ok thanks My ex wants me back and it's everything I want and he didn't do anything wrong so I'm happy, but it just feels so weird now. I'm just scared he hasn't gotten over whatever obstacle he was facing/wanting to be by himself, because obviously I don't want to get hurt again. But then I was really happy with him and he said it hit him full force that he was being an idiot and he loves me. I guess it won't feel 'normal' now. So we're going for a meal next Weds and I'm just using this time to think about what I want/need for this to work, if it all.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Mints View Post
    Yeah I'll be ok thanks My ex wants me back and it's everything I want and he didn't do anything wrong so I'm happy, but it just feels so weird now. I'm just scared he hasn't gotten over whatever obstacle he was facing/wanting to be by himself, because obviously I don't want to get hurt again. But then I was really happy with him and he said it hit him full force that he was being an idiot and he loves me. I guess it won't feel 'normal' now. So we're going for a meal next Weds and I'm just using this time to think about what I want/need for this to work, if it all.
    Look after yourself sweetie and if you do get back together and it works then great! But...if he has another "whatever obstacle" moment again, you may want to wonder what it is that's making him back off and if you're willing to be dropped each time he does it. <3
    Piercings: 6 lobes, 2 12mm stretched lobes, 4 helices, 3 tragus, daith, 2 nostril, 2.4mm VCH, 2.4mm daith
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    Cosmetic Modifications: Scar removal x7, semi permanent eyebrows, semi permanent eyeliner, semi permanent lipstick, lip dermal filler, botox
    Retired Piercings: 3 nipple, tongue, 4 philtrum, 4 eyebrow, 2 outer labia, VCH, 1 lobe, rook, nostril, 3 nape MDs, 2 wrist MDs, septum, 3 upper conch, conch, 5 helices
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    Quote Originally Posted by Hazel View Post
    Look after yourself sweetie and if you do get back together and it works then great! But...if he has another "whatever obstacle" moment again, you may want to wonder what it is that's making him back off and if you're willing to be dropped each time he does it. <3
    Yeah I am doing, I want him to sit me down and explain it all again next week and then if I feel ok I want to take things slow, I hope I can trust him that he won't leave again. I've told him I need him to be 1000% sure. But in the meantime I'll just get on and keep myself busy like usual. Thank you <3
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    ARGH me and Carl could finally be out of his dads house for good! Don't get me wrong, I love his dad and I love living here but it was only supposed to be a temporary thing, over 2 years later and we're still here! We've got a house viewing tomorrow with a really nice landlord, and can be in by the end of feb/start of march! SO excited!
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    I don't even know anymore.
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