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    Quote Originally Posted by Thehorror View Post
    I did it! Over the phone but I did it! I almost texted him but my roommates mom wouldn't let me
    I actually broke up with my ex via text. It wasn't intentional; I had intended to break up with him face to face, but we were in a long distance relationship and I wanted to give him fair warning that we needed a serious talk before he made the trip down. He flipped his sh!t and accused me of cheating on him (he was basing this on nothing more than the fact that I was 'so pretty that I could have anyone' and 'what else would I need to tell him'? Bare in mind this is the same guy who tried to have webcam sex with his ex while he was with me and asked if he could hire a prostitute while he was in Amsterdam. Essentially, he was projecting his own flaws on to me; because he would happily cheat if he could ever find a girl crazy enough to sleep with him, then I was definitely cheating as there were guys who wanted to sleep with me... >_>)

    I decided I couldn't be bothered with his silly little tantrums any more and told him to not bother coming down to visit after all. I think he technically broke it off with me via text, but, eh. It's not a great way to break up, but in the case of that relationship it was probably for the best.
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    Not strictly relationship related but.....I may possibly be going on my first "date" (I really hate that term) in over a year.

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    I accidentally broke up with my ex over Facebook message. I wanted to do it face to face, because I thought doing it over message was disrespectful, so asked him to meet up with me the next day. I didn't want him to think it was just a normal meet up, though, so I told him I had to speak to him about something. He immediately asked if I was breaking up with him and I told him I would tell him tomorrow, but he said that others have said the same thing then broken up with him. He knew I was going to break up with him, so I thought there was no point in delaying it and prolonging it for him, and ended up just doing it over message.

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    I'm in a pretty awkward situation at the moment. I seem to be getting in a lot of these situations lately. Two Saturdays ago when I was at a club, I met a guy and we kissed. I ended up going out with him the Monday after and we kissed again. He ended up coming home with me that night, but nothing happened. I was drunk both times and I thought it was just a bit of fun, but he seems to think it's something serious. Since then, he's been constantly messaging me on Facebook. He's just so full on and forward. The next day, he asked me if we were "a thing", despite us only knowing each other for three days at that point. I was supposed to be meeting up with him today, which I was considering cancelling because he made it seem like it would be a "date" and I don't really think I'm interested in him the way he seems to be in me, but then my flatmates planned for us to go out for carvery, so I told him I couldn't go because I was going out with my flatmates. He asked if we could meet up tomorrow, but I can't because I'm doing something tomorrow. Then he asked if I had to go and I said yes - it's not like I can be the only person from my flat to not go out with them because I'm meeting up with a guy. That would make me seem like I don't care about my flatmates and like I'm not making an effort. He asked if I couldn't just tell them I have other plans, which is hardly an option. He's messaged me tonight saying he's at a friends house and got his wifi code just so he could message me. Also, we're both virgins and he keeps strongly implying that he's desperate to lose his virginity to me. Like sometimes I would be complaining about revision and I'd say that I can think of various other things I'd rather do (not meaning anything dirty by that), and he would reply like "Me too" with a winky face... I don't know, it's just creepy. But I feel like an awful person and like I've led him on. I guess I just need to stop kissing people when I'm drunk. :/

    Also, there's a guy I can't stop thinking about even though I haven't even known him a month and, in that time, I've already cried once because of him. He messed up a bit and then I messed things up between us, and I've recently noticed that he's deleted me on Facebook. That's absolutely pathetic and I shouldn't care, but I really do, and I feel guilty for what I did even though he upset me first. :(

    Basically, I have quite a few guy issues and it's all very confusing. I had hardly any experience with guys before uni, so it's all very new to me. I guess I'll be relieved to have a break from all this when I go home for Christmas.
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    I had an ex break up with me by text, the day before I came back from CERN, couldn't even wait a day to do it in person! I was rather annoyed. Although I'll take that over the ex who wouldn't let me break up with him, for over a year, and even after still considered me being with anyone else "cheating on him"!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Mole90 View Post
    Not strictly relationship related but.....I may possibly be going on my first "date" (I really hate that term) in over a year.
    It is, I even welcome people to talk about the relationships they have with friends in this thread.

    What's wrong with the word "date"?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Hazel View Post
    Could be worse, you could live with him and have him hovering over you for 5 weeks, crying and begging you and waking you up in the night wailing etc (sigh)

    Can you get someone else to return it or leave it somewhere for him?
    Yeah we have a mutual friend whom I'll probably give it to
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    Quote Originally Posted by Thehorror View Post
    Yeah we have a mutual friend whom I'll probably give it to
    Sounds like a good plan
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    I broke up with my ex over the phone (this was 8 years ago). Honestly our relationship was going no where, he didn't trust me in the slightest (he would constantly ask me who I was talking to online, would snoop on my computer to see if there was anything incriminating), he treated me like a child. At one point he even manipulated me into having sex with him after I said no, by saying I didn't love him if I didn't (which is what my Dad had said to my Mum, and they split up recently at that time, so he knew what he was doing by saying that). The funny thing is during the beginning of our relationship he broke up with me because he felt I was getting too jealous and didn't want that drama in his life. But I wasn't allowed to have male friends or anything. He'd always be sulking when I came back and start questioning me. He'd also got annoyed I said he was my boyfriend to my family when we first went out because you don't make it official until you've tried each other out for a bit... wat.

    I didn't break up with him until I met my partner who I'm with now. We were friends, but our feelings for each other were growing more and this was just when we spoke online. We had a lot in common and we'd stay up all night talking and playing online games. He was at University with me so I'd kinda met him and spoke to him in person a few times, but we were both very awkward and shy. I met him properly the second year of Uni and hung out with him and I really connected with him, but nothing would have happened if I stayed with my ex, so I broke up with him. I think meeting someone better finally gave me a wake up call that I don't need to stick with someone because I "can't find anyone better". I deserved better. I didn't deserve to be treated like a child, like I was there just to give him pleasure, that I wasn't trustworthy for daring to have male friends. After we broke up I found him chatting up girls while talking shit about me at the same time. He couldn't even remember what course I was doing at Uni or even when my Birthday was. Warning signs I all missed.

    I honestly do wonder if maybe my ex was projecting his desire to cheat onto me though.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hazel View Post
    It is, I even welcome people to talk about the relationships they have with friends in this thread.

    What's wrong with the word "date"?
    I suppose date implies some kind of expectation or pressure on a situation. I prefer just viewing it as two people hanging out.....even though the obvious connotations attached to the meet up are obvious.

    It's mostly be being pedantic.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mole90 View Post
    I suppose date implies some kind of expectation or pressure on a situation. I prefer just viewing it as two people hanging out.....even though the obvious connotations attached to the meet up are obvious.

    It's mostly be being pedantic.
    Nothing wrong with that lol!
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