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    Well my lovely hubby decided to get drunk last night, I didn't get to bed til 4am as was on a late shift. He slept downstairs (I work from home) but then as I went to bed he started dropping things and making loads of noise, walking into things in the kitchen so that kinda unsettled me. Then a few hours later he came to bed, his alarm went off so he could see to our son (I usually get a lie in as I am on lates again tonight) but he just kept snoozing it and fobbing our son off, I then realised when I woke properly it was gone 10am!! Poor thing wanted his breakfast so I've ended up getting up after about 3 hours sleep and not looking forward to the late shift coming up :(

    Hubby also has an appt at the doctors this afternoon about his 'problems' that I had to make him book. But someone scared me the other night saying the GP may contact social services if they think my son is in danger (which I have to say he most certainly is not and if I ever thought he was then I would protect him myself). I know my son sholdn't ever witness anything even verbal, this is why hubby is under a strict ultimatum.

    To explain - my hubby lashed out at me a couple of weeks ago when drunk, it has happened a couple of times in the past 12 years but there has been plenty of times where there has been emotional abuse/agression etc. He was referred to an abuse prevention programme but it will cost 2000 and that's money we don't have. Just don't know what to do anymore, he's still asleep in bed, will probably miss his appointment which I suppose says a lot really....if he doesn't go that's most certainly the beginning of the end.

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    Callum and I might have found the perfect flat.... fingers crossed! We went to view it today and it was absolutely STUNNING.



    Obviously these are show home pictures so we won't have that exact furniture.
    First half of the living room/kitchen.


    Second half


    That's two balconies there. The gorgeous main bathroom. Then the second bedroom which my mum'll be staying in till she finds her own place is HUGE with a walk in wardrobe. The main bedroom, mine and Callum's, is also pretty damn big. It has a shower room en-suite, a balcony and a walk in wardrobe.

    We have the deposit here so if all goes to plan... it'll be ours to move into on September 1st
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    Had a really good heart to heart with my girl late last night We both ended up abit teary but it was a positive conversation over all. We were both knackered and a tiny bit drunk, so the truth came out completely. It was just what we needed really. Its her birthday in a few weeks and I've got her some presents which I know she will love, so I can't wait to see her face on the day


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    Two years and a month, still all going swimmingly
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    Quote Originally Posted by wallflower View Post
    Callum and I might have found the perfect flat.... fingers crossed! We went to view it today and it was absolutely STUNNING.



    Obviously these are show home pictures so we won't have that exact furniture.
    First half of the living room/kitchen.


    Second half


    That's two balconies there. The gorgeous main bathroom. Then the second bedroom which my mum'll be staying in till she finds her own place is HUGE with a walk in wardrobe. The main bedroom, mine and Callum's, is also pretty damn big. It has a shower room en-suite, a balcony and a walk in wardrobe.

    We have the deposit here so if all goes to plan... it'll be ours to move into on September 1st
    Oh my goodness, it's gorgeous! I would loooove to live somewhere like that!

    Things are going pretty swell with me and Brandon still. We had our year and a half anniversary a few days ago. Didn't do much special besides sit outside and eat. We were gonna go for a picnic at the metro parks but it was oddly full. Either way, it was nice spending time with him.
    Unfortunately today and last night we got in a little tiff, but as usual, things have been resolved.
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    My boys coming down for a week in a few days & honestly, im scared.
    Last time i saw him was the first time & that was 7weeks ago, now he's coming here and i dont have a clue what kind of things to do, cant sit here all the time.
    & its a long period of time..what if something goes wrong....
    Blahh what the hell am i doing.




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    You'll have to do some research and think of places to go. I hope the weather is nice for you, because that'll make things easier.


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    Quote Originally Posted by wallflower View Post
    Callum and I might have found the perfect flat.... fingers crossed! We went to view it today and it was absolutely STUNNING.
    The niceness of this flat depresses me as I am currently flat-hunting and have only found dumps for my budget! Lucky lucky!



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    Aww :( That's what happened with us and then this one popped up! The desposit is paid so it's now OURS Roll on September 1st.
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    Still a looooong way off but I found the perfect ring to surprise Robin with when he pops the question (well, I think that's what I'll do :s all I know is I want to get him this). Need income first obviously, pricey.



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