General Relationship Thread

[swimmingthroughrain]

Surely part of being in an adult relationship is correctly reading the signals and knowing when it's appropriate?

I don't know if this was to me, but...um...yes?

And?

[Youki-Hi]

I'm on the Caz end of the scale. If I had my own way it'd be at least once a day.

I do sometimes feel like a freak when talking to girlie friends who are all "oh my god my boyfriend kept pestering me. Christ we'd had sex a couple of days ago." Wheras I'm the one in my relationship doing the pestering.

[bekki2308]

yeah totally jane

and swimming no offence but you dont know what its like. Its annoying when your tired and just want a hug to have this thing attacking you then going in a mood when you say no its not nice, but what we are saying here is that its okay for a guy to say no to the girl but not the girl to say no to the guy

[nightwolf]

Don't get me wrong even with my reasons I like sex, a lot, all the things attached to it as well.

^_^ bwuahaha. I very rarely say no, but it depends on the relationship.

[SakuraChan]

It's not like we don't have a lot of sex, when I go see him it's like 4-5 times day, on all three days as well because we don't get to see each other for another two weeks. I just don't like it when I feel like I'm not allowed an hour or whatever to chill out first when I get to his, without making him paranoid I'm going off him, or off sex lol.

I'm a bit weird about having sex then going straight out somewhere after, but he doesn't get that either

[swimmingthroughrain]

Just a couple of days ago? WTF?? Ugh.

And it's not okay for the guys to say no (without a good reason) either...

I mean, aren't you with the person because you WANT to have sex with them? I don't get these couples who go days, weeks, months without sex. Just break up if you want to be celibate.

[bigredfish]

Just a couple of days ago? WTF?? Ugh.

And it's not okay for the guys to say no (without a good reason) either...

I mean, aren't you with the person because you WANT to have sex with them? I don't get these couples who go days, weeks, months without sex. Just break up if you want to be celibate.

What if you love someone but they're really awful in bed?

[Youki-Hi]

Just a couple of days ago? WTF?? Ugh.

And it's not okay for the guys to say no (without a good reason) either...

I mean, aren't you with the person because you WANT to have sex with them? I don't get these couples who go days, weeks, months without sex. Just break up if you want to be celibate.

Different people have different sex drives. And there can be other reasons. With my boyfriend the sex being much less than usual is because he's getting up at half 6, going off to work and normally not being home until about 8pm. So he's pretty tired and stressed.

Another example, my sister and her husband didn't have sex for months because she was pregnant and then they had a new baby.

I think being able to say "no, not now" is a sign of a strong relationship.

Having said all that I'm still all annoyed and frustrated at the moment.

[Steph>>Manchestarrr]

Just a couple of days ago? WTF?? Ugh.

And it's not okay for the guys to say no (without a good reason) either...

I mean, aren't you with the person because you WANT to have sex with them? I don't get these couples who go days, weeks, months without sex. Just break up if you want to be celibate.

Yeah wanting to have sex with your partner is part of going out with them, but so is doing other things with them you don't need to be at it 24/7. Yeah it's good, but so are crisp, wouldn't mean people will want to eat them everyday forever.


Worst metaphor ever haha!

[.Only.Streetlights.]

I treat sex like cake. It doesn't matter how much cake I have, I'm not satisfied either.