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    I'm still hoping this is just a phase though... I really REALLY don't want to make him suffer again, and then just go back on my words as I did before, you know? I'd rather put up with it and shut up and see how it goes...
    I bet part of it is just me feeling lonely...
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    Yeah I see where you're coming from. Relationships are so complicated
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    They are! That's why I want a break from them... I probably won't be a member of this thread anytime soon, but when I become one I ain't leaving so fast!
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    Retired: too many. :(

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    Yep, I'm very reluctant to get back involved in anything vaguely serious and that's after nearly two years of being single!
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    Ines I totally get where you're coming from, after 13 years I've finally snapped but oh my the guilt, seeing him so upset, hearing him say his life and world have fallen apart was somewhat destroying for me. I wanted to change my mind, make it all better but it's not the right way to go, letting him back and carrying on in a loveless situation will only last for so long.

    I'm not suggesting you just end it and move on because it may not be the course of action that's right for you or what you really want but I'd say be mindful of how long you let it last for. Also know that he can and will get over it, my ex husband is still devastated, even though we discuss our son factually he often has tears prickling his eyes when he speaks to me. It really pulls at my heart strings but staying with him I know I would have ended up being bitter and almost resentful of him. I feel you're probably struggling because of the distance though, cannot be easy for you!

    I'm waffling, sorry am pretty emotional today as I'm tired/hungover. My life keeps taking the weirdest turns right now, I tried to get a more active social life and everything keeps going so crazy I feel like I'm in a soap opera right now rather than my own life. I'm just going down the route that this is all just madness, I'm doing what I want but being mindful not to hurt others.....crazy situations. Sorry I know tis vague but yeah, needed to get it out
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    Apparently I have another new admirer. I'm pretty sure I've never spoken to this guy at all :/
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    You are super pretty Nat! Can't really blame all these men for fancying you
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    Haha thanks hun I wouldn't mind so much if they were normal or actually spoke to me. I have the weird housemate stalker who's just weird and now this guy who I swear I've never spoken to
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    Aw, maybe guy you've never spoken to is dead shy? Apparently Nick fancied me before we'd properly spoken.. and it still took me weeks to get a condo out of him!!

    EDIT: convo not a condo!
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    Haha condo

    Yeah apparently he is really shy. It's less weird than the stalkery housemate though to be fair. Ah why can't the people I like just like me back, that'd be so much simpler haha
    Got: Left Ear: Lobe (19mm/5mm/1.6mm), 4xhelix, 5mm conch

    Right Ear: Lobe (19mm/5mm/1.6mm), inner helix, orbital (Top)

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