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Originally Posted by indie.star
But for yourself this option is far beyond perfect, as you would like to have a child sometime in the future... so for the time being it is perfect... but later on it will be expensive, or result in adoption.
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Originally Posted by indie.star
But for yourself this option is far beyond perfect, as you would like to have a child sometime in the future... so for the time being it is perfect... but later on it will be expensive, or result in adoption.
As I recall, it was unplanned? That's not making a choice to have a child, that's accidental.Quote:
Originally Posted by Niiick
No we did want a child, else i would have been on some form of birth control wouldnt i? or at least told Nick to wear a jacket like he did in the begining.Quote:
Originally Posted by Slania
I told Nick back in jan/feb that i wanted to be with him, and to have children with him... even though taken abak Nick felt the same, I suppose the only unplanned bit of it is, i wouldnt know when i would conceive as i have bad history with conception... it took 6 yrs to conceive the one i lost, my periods are very few and far between and i was informed at the age of 16 that for me to coceive at all would be very very hard if at all possible.
I understnd it was very early into a new relationship.. but i knew what i wanted. Cheesey as it sounds, iv met the perfect man for me. I knew this early on.
No not for myself (:frown:) but in terms of contraception it is perfect!Quote:
Originally Posted by cherryd69
No. As Dawn said in response to this, we planned to a point that we wanted a child, which is all anyone can do. Nobody on the planet can say 'I want a child on 'x' date, even with the best will in the world. We expected many months/years of trying, but we were pleasantly surprised that we fell pregnant early on.Quote:
Originally Posted by Slania
Such is life. It catches you unawares at times. Plan for a lengthy trying period, wham, life throws its ace card down early......
My sister got really dissapointed that when they started trying it was literally one or two days after they stopped using condoms that she got pregnant since she was really looking forward to having lots of fun trying.
Obviously she was really happy to be having a baby, just slightly annoyed she wasn't going to have lots of sex because her husband's odd and thinks sex in the first three months might harm the baby.
tbh im glad it didnt take that long, as i think it would become routine and boring..
A nurse who i worked with got caught the first time after she got married, due to all the medication she was taken off she was very very surprised.
Abortions and eating meat should never *ever* be in the same sentence. lol (sorry about the late reply)Quote:
Originally Posted by Tegoz_Marianos
See above for what I was on about, lolQuote:
Originally Posted by Tegoz_Marianos
I don't want kids and I really hope I never do. I don't like babies or children - I find them annoying and don't think they're cute. I couldn't stay at home and not work - I'd be bored out of my mind, and it's not fair to put them in a nursery. I want to spend my money how I want not chuck it away on children, I want to enjoy my holidays, go out when I want etc. And if not for any of that, I think depression etc is partly genetic and I wouldn't want to bring anyone into the world to go through what I've been through.