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Originally Posted by indie.star
But for yourself this option is far beyond perfect, as you would like to have a child sometime in the future... so for the time being it is perfect... but later on it will be expensive, or result in adoption.
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Originally Posted by indie.star
But for yourself this option is far beyond perfect, as you would like to have a child sometime in the future... so for the time being it is perfect... but later on it will be expensive, or result in adoption.
As I recall, it was unplanned? That's not making a choice to have a child, that's accidental.Quote:
Originally Posted by Niiick
No we did want a child, else i would have been on some form of birth control wouldnt i? or at least told Nick to wear a jacket like he did in the begining.Quote:
Originally Posted by Slania
I told Nick back in jan/feb that i wanted to be with him, and to have children with him... even though taken abak Nick felt the same, I suppose the only unplanned bit of it is, i wouldnt know when i would conceive as i have bad history with conception... it took 6 yrs to conceive the one i lost, my periods are very few and far between and i was informed at the age of 16 that for me to coceive at all would be very very hard if at all possible.
I understnd it was very early into a new relationship.. but i knew what i wanted. Cheesey as it sounds, iv met the perfect man for me. I knew this early on.
No not for myself (:frown:) but in terms of contraception it is perfect!Quote:
Originally Posted by cherryd69
No. As Dawn said in response to this, we planned to a point that we wanted a child, which is all anyone can do. Nobody on the planet can say 'I want a child on 'x' date, even with the best will in the world. We expected many months/years of trying, but we were pleasantly surprised that we fell pregnant early on.Quote:
Originally Posted by Slania
Such is life. It catches you unawares at times. Plan for a lengthy trying period, wham, life throws its ace card down early......
My sister got really dissapointed that when they started trying it was literally one or two days after they stopped using condoms that she got pregnant since she was really looking forward to having lots of fun trying.
Obviously she was really happy to be having a baby, just slightly annoyed she wasn't going to have lots of sex because her husband's odd and thinks sex in the first three months might harm the baby.
tbh im glad it didnt take that long, as i think it would become routine and boring..
A nurse who i worked with got caught the first time after she got married, due to all the medication she was taken off she was very very surprised.
Abortions and eating meat should never *ever* be in the same sentence. lol (sorry about the late reply)Quote:
Originally Posted by Tegoz_Marianos
See above for what I was on about, lolQuote:
Originally Posted by Tegoz_Marianos
I don't want kids and I really hope I never do. I don't like babies or children - I find them annoying and don't think they're cute. I couldn't stay at home and not work - I'd be bored out of my mind, and it's not fair to put them in a nursery. I want to spend my money how I want not chuck it away on children, I want to enjoy my holidays, go out when I want etc. And if not for any of that, I think depression etc is partly genetic and I wouldn't want to bring anyone into the world to go through what I've been through.
I'd love kids someday. TBH theoretically I'd have kids now, but realistically its just not viable. I'd like to be financially stable to a point where I could spend the first few years at least at home with my child but tbh that seems like a bit of a fantasy :tongue:
I agree with this mostly, but sometimes I think kids are cute. That doesn't mean I want any.Quote:
Originally Posted by jenny1000
My life would be ruined if I had kids, and that's why I'm not having any. I want to live my life for me and only me.
I don't like sex, I don't like kids, and pregnancy/pregnant women scare me, so I don't see myself having kids any time soon, or ever!
I recognise that I am far too selfish to have a child, & yes I am only 20 but I can't see this changing any time soon. I look out for myself & I plan my life to suit me, kids don't come into it. I am career motivated. Not to say that you can't do both.
I don't believe anyone needs to reproduce in this day and age, we aren't trying to repopulate the world, so I don't see the point in bringing a child into the world when I just don't want to. So many people have kids when they shouldn't be already & I for one am not going to add to that.
I'm a loner & possibly a bit of a nihilist, but hey, at least I know this!
You sound very sensible and almost exactly like me, except for the not liking sex part. :)
'scuse me love, you're a virgin? How would you know if you like sex or not when you haven't had it?Quote:
Originally Posted by swimmingthroughrain
She's seen it on some websites out there and it looks rather interesting. The only problem it cost her $10 a minute to find this out :tongue:
an theres books!!! dont forget the books!!!
TBH sex really can be overrated :D Well, depending who's doing it anyway...
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Originally Posted by swimmingthroughrain
*is scared... oh so very scared* :eek:
*passes you a pistol and a single shot*Quote:
Originally Posted by DavyBobMacca
http://pix.motivatedphotos.com/2009/...910658-sex.jpgQuote:
Originally Posted by Tegoz_Marianos
HAHAHA well there's no risk of HER getting pregnant anyway...
dunno... theres always that chance :itchy_chin:
Best to stay away from boys an their germs.
Hahaha uhm what is even going on in that picture!?
Yup, they're all diseased and smelly :biggrin:
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Originally Posted by tacosareyummeh
Thats sex... didnt u know? :frown: poor girl
:satan:
...I've been doing it wrong all along.
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Originally Posted by Niiick
Is that so we only have to deal with one or so I can commit suicide? Either is good :tongue:
^ maybe if you stick their heads close enough together... 2 birds 1 stone so to speak?
Ah... Perhaps a trick ricochet shot?
no no, high enough caliber gun, would pass safely through one skull and then maybe lodge in the next :D
Awwww and I wanted to show off!!!
Come on, it's not fair to judge Kym the same as 'Swimmingthroughrain' because 'Swimming' has said the seem exactly alike
Yeah. Tbh I was about to say that as well.
No offence meant. Sorry!!!
However I am a good shot! lol ;)
So you don't ever start wanting sex until you've had it. Right...Quote:
Originally Posted by Niiick
Yeah, but in my experience, so is keeping your virginity. People are all "Oh you're great, you're saving yourself for someone special" but really, it's not. It gets old faster than you'd think. Most people don't experience it long enough to realize how old it really can get. Eh, whatever.Quote:
Originally Posted by Tegoz_Marianos
Sexual desire is different to sexual enjoyment.
You saying that you like sex is like me saying I like parachuting. I never tried it, but the idea appeals to me and I would like to try it. Though, from some of your previous posts on pregnancy I get the impression you'll be abstaining from sex because of the fear you have of getting pregnant
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Love, you said you LIKE sex.......Quote:
Originally Posted by swimmingthroughrain
I rest me case mi'lord.
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Actually, she said she didn't dislike it. Which I think is fair to say if she hasn't had it yet...Quote:
Originally Posted by Niiick
Yeah, but the thing is, you can't really like or dislike something without trying it first.