No siblings, no dad, mom lives in another state.
There really isn't anyone I could tell.
But you're probably right, he's made such threats often.
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Don't make me challenge you to a duel for his attention :tongue:
His laptop is messed up hardcore stylie which is why you won't have seen him online for an age.
Oh, and Alexandra, in my experience, the people who constantly go on and on about how they're going to kill themselves, are the ones who never would, it's just an attention seeking method to try and make you feel guilty, don't let it. As Chrissy said, he's not your concern anymore.
This is true, I'm going to try and ignore it.
I'll never forgive myself if something happens to him though.
I know what you mean, but you need to think, it won't actually be your fault.
What's most likely to happen is that he'll lose interest in these pointless threats once you start to ignore them.
Well, thanks for the advice, we'll just have to wait and see.
Um...not to be a bitch but not that long ago you were going on about still being in love with him and getting pissed off at him not texting you constantly all day. You've messed him around, now it'll take him time to get over it. He's acting like a pathetic baby about it so just give each other some breathing space. After a while you'll probably be able to be friends again. I know you're still really young and this is the first time you've had to deal with a major break-up but trust me, time is the best healer, and in the future if it happens again take time apart right from the beginning.
EDIT: This sounds more harsh than I mean it too. Head exploded from dissertation. Basically I meant it's a natural reaction to getting hurt and if you hadn't moved on you'd be in a similar place because a few months isn't that long really. Sorry for being bitchy. I'm really not trying to be harsh or blame you for him being a knob or anything.
The weekend with Simon was lovely, despite me being all stressed. He taught me the first bits of driving (starting the car, changing gears etc) and we saw Star Trek together. I did have a bit of a cry on him because I was bitching about the polution in london and how expensive everything is and he yelled at me for it. So I got all upset because that's just how I am - a bitch. I can't help it, I'm a judgemental bitch and lots of people love me for it...and I'm sure Simon does too...I think he just took it personally because he loves London so much.We sorted it out really quickly though, and he's been great about my dissertation, not ringing me but offering support if I ring him.
I am feeling so much pain for my hubby atm he sems to have really hit a big bout of depression he almost looks like he is on the verge of a nervous breakdown Ive told him he has got to go and see a dr I plucked up the courage last year t go and talk about my depression so I think its a good idea for him to go and talk to the dr
*hugs* that must be really hard. I know how difficult it's been with my dad, and he's been on meds and pretty stable so I can't imagine how difficult it must be worrying constantly about someone you love. At least he has a lovely understanding wife to help him through. Good luck.
Merhhh I can't see my OH til her exams are finished. Not cool, not cool at all, especially cos I'm totally lacking motivation to do well this year. Ughh.
Nick is now livin here <goes all eeeeeeeeeeeeeee >
*dances round*
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*stops dancin cause Nick will see ma crazy dance*