General Relationship Thread

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Originally Posted by nightwolf

Haha your such a liar. A bad bad liar. :P

Aw ross I'm so glad you've finally managed to settle down!

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Thanks, even if it just means the forum doesnt have to put up with me much longer =P

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Originally Posted by tyrannosauRoss

last weekend went amazing!

I'm so........you know! Loved up!

Told each other how we feel, meeting his parents this wednesday!...uhm.....=D

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10.

My lovely boyfriend has been taking care of me while I've been sick for the past few days. N'awwwh.

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Originally Posted by Youki-Hi

The only thing I'd say swimming is you're not the only person in the world whose reached their 20s before being in any sort of relationship. I know it must be pretty tough but things still happen. I've known a couple of people who got to the point where they thought that nothing would ever ever happen, and then it did. Have you ever thought about councelling or something to get over your shyness. It's obviously holding you back. I'm pretty positive the reason isn't because you're a horrible person, it's not because people don't care about you or anything, it's just because no-one likes taking risks and if you're shy it probably makes them think you wouldn't be interested.

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My sister, who acts like a total bitch, has a boyfriend. She is way, way worse than I am. And she's just one person, the closest to me I can think of, who is way worse than me and still with someone.

I honestly don't know why and I don't know how much longer I can keep searching for the answer for why this has happened to me. If I stopped to really think about what I've lost, it would destroy me. All the time I've lost that I can never get back...it's just gone. And the scariest thing is how much more time I could lose.

I've been to counseling, it didn't help me at all.

And considering how many people here hate me, it probably is because I'm a horrible person.

ny

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Originally Posted by swimmingthroughrain

My sister, who acts like a total bitch, has a boyfriend. She is way, way worse than I am. And she's just one person, the closest to me I can think of, who is way worse than me and still with someone.

I honestly don't know why and I don't know how much longer I can keep searching for the answer for why this has happened to me. If I stopped to really think about what I've lost, it would destroy me. All the time I've lost that I can never get back...it's just gone. And the scariest thing is how much more time I could lose.

I've been to counseling, it didn't help me at all.

And considering how many people here hate me, it probably is because I'm a horrible person.

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Firstly, no-one on here hates you. It's just an opinionated bunch, disagreement doesn't mean hatred. I certainly don't hate you and I'm one of the most judgemental people on here.

And your sister probably flirts more than you do. My flatmate Laura was the same, she was awesome, pretty, really funny. But whenever a guy flirted with her you could see her freeze up. She didn't notice she was doing it. So the guys just assumed she didn't like them and didn't bother flirting any longer. And she then just assumed that no-one fancied her and gave up and got more self conscious around guys and flirted even less.

I'm sure you've noticed even really horrible people who aren't exactly pretty get relationships. Because they flirt and get out there.

Aren't relationships one of life's great mysteries though?

The moment you stop searching for one, one comes along.

The people who go around constantly thinking 'I need a boyfriend/girlfriend' are the ones putting more pressure on themselves and in turn are less likely to find someone.

This is my opinion because it has happened to me and people I know.

5 months yesterday, living together for 1.5 of those months :D Happy happy.

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Originally Posted by wallflower

5 months yesterday, living together for 1.5 of those months :D Happy happy.

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Aww congrats :).

We go away tomorrow!
First time we'll have gone away just us ><
And guess what?
IM ILL >:( I got sent home from work and everything (you practically need to chop your hand off to get sent home!)
Ughhhhh.