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Our 'I love you' was a couple of weeks after meeting... which is very early, but I know I meant it, and I'd like to think he did too :D We were play fighting on his bed (not that kind...) and he was pretending to strangle me, and he said 'tell me you love me or I'll kill you'.
Sounds a bit sick, but there was a context! :D
He also proposed to me in a tent ;)
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Originally Posted by FakeFlower
Same!!!!
My bf said i love you first.....after about a month...i didn't say it back...he was a bit upset, i said it about a month later! Lol...things been good between us lately, not been arguing like we were before....its our 2 year anniversary on the 28th of this month and next month we're going on holiday together!!! :o)
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Originally Posted by FakeFlower
I've only ever told two guys I loved them. One because he was going to cry if I didn't say it back, and the other one because I really meant it with all my soul. The first was ultra romantic, he took me dancing and then I came home and he'd written "I love you" in sprinkles (like you put on ice cream) on the table. How can you say "you know what, I don't love you" to that? And the second one was far less romantic, in a park and it just popped out.
I really want to say it to my guy. But I want it to be special, so I'm trying to be careful. A couple of months ago we'd just spent the night together and were snuggling and I was thinking and he asked what it was about and forced me to say it and I said "I think I'm falling in love with you". and he made a stupid joke and said "don't get blinded by the sparkle yeah". So I'm kinda scared he's just going to ruin it.
I've said it to a few, only one had meaning. I always felt quite pressured to say it to them.
I've said it twice, and I suppose haven't meant it either time.
First time, it was my first relationship. He said it after about a week. I kind of went 'umm..yeah..me too', while my head was going 'OMG WTF run!!'.
Second time, I thought I meant it. I said it after about two months. Looking back though, it was far more infatuation than love.
My better half and I have been together 5 years, engaged since christmas. I love him to pieces and couldn't imagine life without him. He drives me round the bend occasionally, but I wouldn't change a thing about him.
We got together at 18 and had a lot of ups and downs like most couples.. worries about committing too young etc. But ultimately we can't be without each other.
I think relationships are all give and take, you need communication and trust. Knowing when to give a bit of space and time as well!
We said we loved each other about 2 weeks in.. and I mean it every time I say it. Else it voids the whole meaning of the words. :)
I remember the first time I said it to myself with my ex. We was on a night out and we was drinking and talking about Spaced and Jaffa Cakes and I thought to myself 'God, I really love her.' I was too scared to say it for another few weeks and when I did say it, it popped out in bed one morning after we woke up.
tbh me and carlu had been texting each other, and we have know each other sinces i siged on, plus weve met at the brighton meet, so i dont think the 1st date was too soon
oops, I just got drunk an d told him I loved ghm. hoops. ah w4ll.nH4's not repleid yet. I'm scared.
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Originally Posted by gandy
Hang on.. you and Carlu? My dear god am I really that slow!