General Relationship Thread

going through a hard part at the moment (as most of you know) but to be honest iv never known such a supportive partner... on my first day back at work i was viberating every 5 mins with 'are you ok babe?' txts :D

didnt think our relationship would be strong enough to cope with what we are going through (due to past history) but....


I LOVE MY GUY :D and im happy to say he loves me :)

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Originally Posted by plum

be prepared for a long one

Ive been friends with this guy since we were about 3 years old and we pretty much grew up together and i'd consider him the closest friend ive ever had. About 2 years ago he brought up the idea of me and him and i liked him alot but i was scared to ruin our friendship, what if we had broken up, things would never be the same, so i said no. For the next month or 2 after that i spent my time thinking about him and what if i had said yes and so i told him what i was thinking, i find i tell him pretty much everything as i know he wont judge me. He told me he'd found someone else and he is with her to this day. So ive basically spent the last two years in regret wishing i hadnt left it too late. I'd tried moving on and last summer i met this guy and we had a great time but i couldnt help thinking 'what if this was ben i was with'. We broke up after 2 months as we sort of drifted apart and i was left single again and thinking about ben. Soon after i broke up with my last boyfriend ben starting saying things like ' if we'ed gotton together i think we'ed still be together now' and 'you never forget the first person you fall in love with' later that day he kissed me, his girlfriend was on holiday in italy, and i know i shouldnt have and it was wrong but i couldnt help it. Afterwards he was all 'that was a mistake im so so sorry please try and forget it' and was just like right. and since then nothing particulary has happened but i think i need to tell him how im feeling. I feel like im lying to him and that he deserves to know even though im pretty prepared that he'll just turn me down.

any thoughts? (if you could be bothered to read all that)

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It sounds like you should talk to him about it. But I honestly think if you guys end up together he should take a little break between his girlfriend and you, only like a month but you need to be sure it's not "grass is always greener" syndrome. Some guys just love things they can't have. Actually I used to do it too so it's not just guys. If he really likes you a month is nothing. And if he's a real mate he'll stick by you. One of my best friends is this guy who had a crush on me all of last year and whom I shared a drunken kiss with. Took a little while, now we get on really well. Same with my most recent ex, now we're both with other people we're great. Possibly better than before since there's no unresolved sexual tension.

Me and my guy are kind of at the "I love you" stage, but it's not happened yet, just always seems to be on the tip of one of our tongues. I'm not saying it first though. Definitely not this time.

Thanks guys. I've been really indecicive about it recently and my friends keep telling me i should go for it too. I'm not getting my hopes up as i don't expect anything I just need to get it off my chest really. He's on hols atm but i'll keep you updated, could be a while, I find it hard judging wether its the right moment etc. thanks :)

ok...
me and my guy... I love him more everyday :D
really... our relationship is just getting better and stronger by the day.

I'm just so happy with him!!
*dances*

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Originally Posted by snicky

ok...
me and my guy... I love him more everyday :D
really... our relationship is just getting better and stronger by the day.

I'm just so happy with him!!
*dances*

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aww hun :), it's nice to see everyone getting happier, must be the weather. :biggrin:

It's mine and my boyfriend's 18 month on saturday but that's the day he's going back to uni :frown:

Aww, I hate uni interfering with things. Me and Jake's 1 year was when I was at uni so I didn't see him till a week after. We're not all that bothered about anniversaries in general usually, so it's okay I guess.

I miss Jake lots at the moment though, he's disconnected his internet so he can concentrate on college, so we won't be talking half as much for a while. We're both geeks so we used to spend pretty much all afternoon/evening online talking on MSN :P Thankfully I have free calls to him and plenty of texts to harass him with, heh. Not that I ever get replies, he hasn't had credit for over a year now :tongue:

James and i were discussing going to london for a few days for our 4 year anniversary in a couple of months....
*fingers crossed*

I'm going off to cornwall for a few days holiday on Monday with my boyfriend. Really looking foreward to it, and yet terrified at the same time. First time we're spending a few days with just each other for company. Hopefully I won't get mad at him, I can be very hot headed in relationships. He made me a bit upset yesterday because I was saying that all my previous boyfriends have just been ridiculously infatuated and never really properly felt anything for me, just for the image they have of me and he was like "yeah I've done that before." smart move. *rolls eyes*.

Who here is good with words ? a person i suppose i've been dating sent me an e-mail and i want to reply but i haven't a clue what to say :confused: