i was just on the phone to dave for like 45 mins and awww :) i'm happy now!
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i was just on the phone to dave for like 45 mins and awww :) i'm happy now!
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Originally Posted by Youki-Hi
my lord! if sawyer did that id of kicked him out of the freaking bed!
and to the other ladies talking about being jealous when it comes to exes, ive been like that a lot lately. for some reason in this relationship ive been more upset over exes then i have in previous relationships. I don't know if its to do with the fact that my last 'relationship' ended with her and i breaking up, and her 'proposing' to her ex in less then a week. i find myself getting a bit upset when i see a picture of sawyer with his ex or if somehow they come up in conversation. i know its stupid. hopefully it eases up a bit because its driving me a bit mad.
You see that's the thing. I'm the least jealous person I know...and I like hearing about his exes. I like that they're very different from me and that I know exactly why they broke up and that he tends to date nice girls who are sensible decisions. Makes me feel more secure in the relationship. Doesn't bug me at all. I just don't want to hear details about their sex life. I guess it's probably because I'm really insecure in bed...I think I'm rubbish....and his previous relationships revolved around sex. I dunno. It just kinda bugs me.
EDIT: Man, I really need to talk to him if I'm still obsessing over this.
Had a big chat with Jamie last night, sorted a few bits out...but he asked me if i had cheated on him in anyway, i haven't, he told me he had never cheated on me either, i told him that i didn;t need to ask him that because i knew he would never do that, he said he was sorry that he asked me.
:o( i just feel like he doesn't trust me and if he doesn't trust me then do we have much of a relationship???
trust is a difficult one to master, as i think everyone has that sudden mistrust feeling inside. its inevitable with all the gossip about famous couples, and soaps with cheats etc etc....
sometimes people just need a little reassurance...
gah. this is more of a rant about "friends" than relationships...
2 months ago, due to crappy stuff happening, my bf and i moved up north to live with my dad, leaving birmingham where we had lived for 5 years.
In birmingham there is a girl my bf and i are both friends with, and well ive found out that apparently some of my so called friends in birmingham have suggested that something is going on between the two of them.
Now i know for a FACT this is not the case, and i dont specifically know which of my "friends" have actually been saying this... but i would not consider anyone who gossips about my relationship to be a friend, especially not if it was something they really considered to be true they havent talked to me about.
Grrrr... needed a bit of a rant. Im just fed up. And to think that i actually missed some of these people.
Friends always turn out to be w*nkers when you have a relationship, I'm not sure why but the whole supportiveness goes straight out the window.
As long as you two are happy, then stuff them! :)
I've had similar happen with my "friend". Though he's the 1 got into a relationship and buggered off to Kent. He just left me basically stranded not knowing where he'd gone or what I was supposed to be doing about my music. He's still there with a woman old enough to be his mum.
Didn't see Jamie today, he cancelled seeing me and stayed home for a party to watch a wrestling match...as he said in his own words its less hassle to stay at home then to come and see you
I don't want a relationship where a wrestling match is more important then meeting me (which was already arranged before the wrestling came up) and where its considered a hassle to see me :o(
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Originally Posted by Youki-Hi
*huggles* I'd be exactly the same, it's nice knowing about their ex's to a degree because then you can think about how amazingly better you are than them etc etc ;) but sex stuff is just...weird. I dunno, in most cicumstances you know that your partner has had previous partners bla bla, but hearing about the intimate stuff is just awkward and it would make any sane girl feel a teensy bit jealous...so natural. I'd mention it to him if it's still bothering you a bit or he mentions it again and just say ' Err too much info' or something along those lines.
Laura *huggles*. Stay strong x