Hug! Boys can be very silly!
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Hug! Boys can be very silly!
they can indeed. i swear they less common sense in and intuition when it comes to relationships
I almost saw that one coming haha :PQuote:
Originally Posted by Kaitey (:
Sorry for just copying and pasting but I can't be arsed typing all this out again so here goes:
I'm a bit confused right now. My boyfriend announced on Saturday that he wanted us to take a break as he's been feeling sad since about Xmas and he wanted to miss me to appreciate me more. I went home on Saturday night and me and my mum had a chat about it. She was asking if he might be getting broody as his sister had her baby around January and I've not really been all that involved with it - I've taken him to see them in Edinburgh a couple times but with me not really "getting" the maternal thing I find it hard to interact with him. It's got to the stage where he's told me he thinks I hate the baby, which isnt true, I just feel awkward around him.
I'm wondering if maybe my mum had a point. I wrote him an email explaining that I don't hate the baby, I just don't know what to do around other people's kids and I'm not avoiding him deliberately. I also mentioned that I'd probably want kids one day but not until we're both financially stable, have something bigger than this 1 bedroom flat, and we're both ready emotionally.
I''m back home with him now after only 1 night away on the break. He says it's not me that's done anything, that he's just feeling down, but after him saying last week that he felt I hate the baby I can't help but wonder if that's the real reason. He's 31 and I'm 25 and I just worry that his biological clock is nagging him now...scary thought and I really don't want us to split over it :(
The other possible reasons we've discussed are his job being stressful / boring, his friends not being around much and both of us having no money. I know he gets bored so we bought him some running shoes for us to both exercise together, I've suggested he keep a look out for a new job and he's going to try and arrange at least one night a week at the pub with a friend. I just hope something works. I can't stand to see him sad and I was so scared when he said he wanted a break. I couldn't stop crying and then when we met up on the Sunday I burst into tears and he told me to come home. But even that made me worry cos I was scared he just asked me home to stop me crying. don't know what to do for the best :(
I'm sorry things are rough right now Emma :( *hugs*
I had a dream this morning that Brandon was cheating on me and then left me for the girl he cheated with. The worst part about it was I had to see them both all over each other every single day. Even though it was only a dream, I felt so depressed and upset in it and he didn't even seem to care. I woke up crying. I know he would never do that but just thinking about it really tears me up. :/
Emma, I know it's hard, but take this time to fully work out what you want as well.
You've done the best you can to let him know how you feel about babies.
Good luck. *hugs*
*cries*
I miss my boyfriend so much :frown: I only got home about 2 hours ago and I feel so rubbish and lonely.
Couldn't resist it, sorry :3Quote:
Originally Posted by lavin
Emma *hugs* maybe the break will do you both good, make you both realise how much you want/need each other :)
Aww Amy :( you'll see him again soon won't you? *hugs* :(Quote:
Originally Posted by SakuraChan
Mr Rudland bought me a pretty baby diamond today :) bless him, he didnt even intend to buy me a gift just was looking for future and remembered id spotted this and asked for it for my birthday , so he got me it as a non-birthday random treat :) http://www.argos.co.uk/wcsstore/argo...3UC634163X.jpg