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i dont think you can set a time limit for sex, in my oppinion just whenever you are ready is fine, and that could be different for different people you are with.
i had sex with my boyfriend (well now ex) about 2 weeks after we started going out and i was a virgin, and i had been thinking 'im not ready yet' but it was only because i had this idea in my head that you should wait a few months first. but i actually really wanted to sleep with him so i did. i just felt very comfortable with him.
I'm in the middle of two paths in my relationship at the moment.
Five months ago me and Morgan split up, it got messy, but stayed in contact we met up as mates, but every time we went to his we had sex. After a while I refused to meet at his, made sure if we did meet it was someone very large and very public which worked fine we still get on well despite niggling at each other over certain things.
But after I left my job I started to feel really really bad about everything, and he has been there to sort of support me as a friend, and I'll admit despite the fact I know someone here will hang me, I stayed at his, we've had sex twice since but I pointed out, the I don't actually know what I want, that it's more having someone there to be with me that I miss, and he doesn't have a problem with that, it's like if I really really need someone, or I need to get out of my parents for a night he's willing to put me up , calm me down, talk to me about it all.
He's told me himself that he misses me, which I feel puts me in a awkward situation because I miss what we had, and what all relationships offer you in the sense of security.
On the point of when we have sex, the bf before Morgan I waited about 6months to have sex with him with Morgan I had sex the second time I met him, our relationship to being with was built soley on sex. F**k buddies can work as a relationships.
my advice.
women are ALWAYS right. men we lack both skill and talent to argue with them. they deal in thing that we know not. man have this strange thing known as FACTS...women don't need these to win an arguement.
hahahaha...you are so funny.Quote:
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Jeez, if you're going to make a stupid attention seeking comment at least spell your post properly. Argument. A - R - G - U - M - E - N - T, not that hard.
hmmm, been with the new boyo about 2 months. Don't know where its going yet but he doesn't half make me larf
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I never consciously set a time limit on how long I'd wait before sleeping with my boyfriend. I waited until I was comfortable and ready which just happened to be about 2 months after we got together.
In my current relationship we waited about a week... well, didn't wait, it's just how it happened. Worked fine for us, we're both pretty compatible sexually.
There's just as many irrational men as there are women. You prove that point.Quote:
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They also have these things called breasts. They work pretty well in an argument too..Quote:
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Although, me and my current girlfriend have never argued.. And I've known her 3 years, been with her for 7 months o_O
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to quote jimmy carr:
ive learnt not to refer to my girlfriend as my "current girlfriend". It suggests im looking for an upgrade. :biggrin: