Going to see the wifey. :D
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Going to see the wifey. :D
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Originally Posted by master_sambo
*hugs* I'm really sorry and hope you are ok! :frown:
My relationship's kinda on the rocks right now. Last night went out with some friends to a club. My friend Emma was not being left alone at all by this creepy guy. So I told him I was her girlfriend, to kind of get rid of him. He didn't believe me so I kissed her. Very much just to get rid of him and 'coz both me and Emma are straight and so it didn't mean anything at all. IMO it's like kissing an orange you know, no feelings either side just felt slightly odd. Simon isn't talking to me now, and got really upset at me. I've apologised loads and explained it but he's not even trying to see things from my point of view.
eek that sucks youki. hopefully giving him a bit of time will let him calm down.
But my bf had always said he would count me kissing another girl cheating.
I can see both sides I suppose... I'd be gutted if my boyfriend did that, BUT I'd also find it hilarious at the same time, and after a bit of sulking I'd let it slide and tease him for the rest of his life. I think all you can do is keep apologising - what's your boyfriend like with turning a bad situation into a joke? Oz and I end up doing that over most things and it works for us.
I suppose it all depends on his definition of cheating really... and how well he knows you and this girl.
Yeah, I definitely understand his side. Would you have done the same if your friend was a guy? Kissing a girl is still cheating to a lot of people, and he probably thinks that you kissing her was unnecessary (which I also think...but I guess I wasn't there, don't know the situation).
I can see his side too, that wasn't my problem. I'm just upset that he's not talking to me about it or trying to. If he'd done the same I would have been like "ok, I get it." And you really weren't there, it was getting kind of scary and I couldn't think of anything else.
It's kinda ok now. We're talking. I don't have a problem with realising it was my mistake, although at the time I didn't think it was 'coz I've always had openish relationships where if a kiss doesn't mean anything and isn't like tongues then it doesn't count as cheating at all, and isn't even thought about. Now I know this relationship is going to be different.
that made me giggle^.Quote:
Originally Posted by Youki-Hi
eitherway i hope things can get sorted :(
I just realised leah has her vch done and I love her myspace song
ooo yeah *chuckles*
I need another boyfriend don't i...>_>
youki, i can see why he'd be upset but to be honest it seems more of a male pride thing. no matter how intelligent they are, they're still men and men with hurt pride are like sulking toddlers.
give him some time, make sure you lavish attention on him and all will be well!