BREAK UP WITH HER.
Oh wait, that's already been said.
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BREAK UP WITH HER.
Oh wait, that's already been said.
:tongue:
Righto. Deep message coming. *Deep breath*
I apologise for annoying you lot like I have done for 4 months. I'm doing tonight what I should have done a long time ago. Thanks for all the 'counselling' as Matty put it but I've given you enough grief and stuff for it. Thanks for putting up with me but I am now shifting off to the singles thread.
Bye bye friends and foes.
Any time love *hugs*. Hope things go ok and she doesn't make too much of a fuss.
Have fun on Friday.
You didn't do it by text did you?!
Couldn,t call me normal either then. If I'm sleeping with you then I love you. Learnt that lesson the hard way. Casual sex/f*ck-buddying is over-rated. :DQuote:
Originally Posted by trivium11
Maybe you'd be best of not even doing the lets just be friends thing, cut yourself off for a while and see if you actually need her there at all. You said she gets jealous, et she treats you how sdhe does. are you sure you want a 'friend' who gets arsey about girl mates?
Give yourself masses of space and decide then.
my two euros.
EDIT: maybe I should have reasd the last few posts before replying...nvm
I did a silly thing on saturday night when i was drunk. I kissed one of my good friends, who just so happens to be my kinda ex's brother.
It's been over 2 years since me and his brother broke up, but it messed me up for a while, and recently I found out details of his cheating which brought back confusing feelings. Now I find out my friend might like me a lot, but hasn't done anything because of my history with his brother.
Eeep :(
What a mess
my missus does me head in at times but because of our new born we try hard
in a nut shell, I really like if not love my best friend, we have "history" I also happen to like her boyfriend, and as my current relationship is on hold it's raised a few questions
I'm just wondering something:
I've never been the kind of love em and leave em kind of guys, both my relationships have been long term (one was 6 months and the other was 1 year and 3 months which is long term for a 17 year old at the time), but since my last one had recently blew up in my face I'm left with a weird urge. I want to have as many one night stands as I possibly can.
Personally this worries me, I'm not that kind of guy: I don't flirt, and I don't go out looking for sex. A lot of my friend as being retarded and trying to get me to use my skills with getting girls as close friends to get them in the sack.
I really don't know what to do. I want to play the field but I have two issues with it. If I start and I just leave the first girl, my conscience is gonna kick me in the ass forever and I know I'm not ready for a relationship so if I find a girl, screw her and then try to stay with her, I'm gonna be all retarded and untrusting (my last relationship ended in a huge fight that was started by her cheating on me a couple months prior, but since I was in love and whatnot I forgave her but then she bitched me out for hanging out with my best friend, who just happens to be a girl going through shit, without telling her)
Any advice? I need it, I maybe making a mistake soon. My friend let it leak to one of my friends who is sorta an ex (we didn't go out but it was like dating, hard to explain) and she is supposedly interested but she's younger and I think she's doing it for the wrong reasons... I have no idea I'm so confused at how I feel.
I don't think you should go and do anything you think there is a chance you might regret to be honest, I don't think going out and getting a nasty cheap shag is going to make you any less confused or make you feel any better.
Just give yourself a break for a while, take some time for yourself and your friends. See what happens, don't worry about it so much! Relationships and sex are very up and down when you're young, well that's what its like for me. One minute you want one thing the next you want something entirely different, its complicated and confusing. But just try and enjoy being young and stupid.