General Relationship Thread

Easier said than done. I just want to be close to him and that feels like the only way sometimes. I know I shouldn't. But it's usually when I'm alone at night, or first thing in the morning that I feel at my weakest and do it. I never used to do this but he's done something to me that's made me totally paranoid :(

But on a positive note, I met someone on Friday night. I made him very aware I'm not ready for anything serious, and he was fine with that. But I did get a kiss goodnight. It didnt really make me feel any better but it did make me less convinced that I'll be alone forever I suppose

How do you even have the password to his emails? Tell him to change it.

Delete his number from your phone. Make sure you give it to a friend beforehand and tell them not to give it to you until at least 2 months is past.

We've already decided on at least two purchases for our new flat :x eheh.
This
http://www.brighthouseblog.co.uk/wp-...y-payments.jpg

And a 55" tv :x

I would recommend staying away from BrightHouse, because they will bleed you dry.

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Originally Posted by bigredfish

I would recommend staying away from BrightHouse, because they will bleed you dry.

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that and they are expensive to start with! 30% typical apr i think! so not only do you pay over the odds to start with you then pay stupid amounts back. By the time you pay for some of the items you've paid almost double.

my advice if you are skint try to get somebody to donate an old tv or get one from a charity shop (about £20!) something around 20 inch is ok in most size rooms and save up the cash for a 55 inch , get sofa cheap from a charity shop they get some nice ones and argos do cheap sofas too

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Originally Posted by bekki2308

that and they are expensive to start with! 30% typical apr i think! so not only do you pay over the odds to start with you then pay stupid amounts back. By the time you pay for some of the items you've paid almost double.

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It's not just the APR either... I watched a documentary about them, and you could actually buy some items cheaper in Harrods before the APR mark up... and then there's the payment protection that they don't tell you about. They are royally screwing people, and I think it's disgusting.

Heh yeah, my family have had trouble with Bright House before. We're buying off of a relative x]

Good :) Just trying to keep an eye out for you!

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Originally Posted by bigredfish

It's not just the APR either... I watched a documentary about them, and you could actually buy some items cheaper in Harrods before the APR mark up... and then there's the payment protection that they don't tell you about. They are royally screwing people, and I think it's disgusting.

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it is disgusting its exploiting those who either have no money are cant manage their money for every penny they have ............ finance schemes are fine if they are fair . Like a certain amount in deposit then the rest at 0% for a period of time depending on the price then after that slapping huge fees on it is much fairer

They're relying on giving contracts to people that have bad credit ratings and can't get a sensible finance scheme.