General Relationship Thread

Waiting isn't for me, never waited more than a couple of weeks before sleeping with someone I was with, sometimes the other way round but each to there own

Me and Chris were really young when we first got together though (14 & 15)

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Originally Posted by Coraz0ndeOro

As for the whole "sex is essential to a relationship" thing, what do you guys think about people in long-term relationships that haven't had sex yet? I'm in that situation right now, and I know others who wait 'til the several months - 1 year mark to have sex. Or what about people who even wait until marriage? Did they not have a real relationship before because they weren't having sex?
I'm not saying you could be together forever and not have sex or have a terrible sex life, but IMO it's definitely not as important as communication and just love for the person.

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I find it virtually impossible to not become effectively friends, at least from the some what small experience of long term relationships that I've had.

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Originally Posted by Kaitey (:

Me and Chris were really young when we first got together though (14 & 15)

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Yeah if I'd been that young I'd probably have waited longer but I didn't sleep with anyone or have a boyfriend until I was seventeen

I was (just) 15 when we first slept together xD but we had done a LOT before then :tongue:

14 and waited 4months.. a lot happening beforehand aswell :(
Hate how that sounds nowadays :tongue:

i was 16 , and we had done stuff before but im glad i waited, i couldnt have gone to clinic i was too shy lmao

Haha I'm not talking about having sex for the first time ever, I'm just talking about having sex with each other.
I was 17 the first time I "did it." And I haven't in over a year!

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Originally Posted by Coraz0ndeOro

Haha I'm not talking about having sex for the first time ever, I'm just talking about having sex with each other.
I was 17 the first time I "did it." And I haven't in over a year!

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Yeah it just sorta came up though

I think it depends on the person.

For me sexual compatability is very important. I wouldn't marry someone I'd not had sex with, for me it'd be like marrying someone I'd not lived with. I'd feel like I didn't have enough information to know if I really wanted to spend forever with them.

But each to their own.