General Relationship Thread

hmmm i have 1 or 2 bad ones


1st date with longest partner, he ended up takin a stupid amount of lsd without me knowin, told me he was goin a&e then f^cked off up newcastle with a load of girls (didnt fid this out till 11yrs later when we split)

next pearler, i had one date with a lad who did nothin but b*tch about his ex an how she was screwin him over left right an center... 3 hrs of him rantin an ravin into a pint, ten he asked me if i wanted to go clubbin an back his for a quickie... my reply 'ermmmmm no but do enjoy pam' an promptly left in a taxi

the whole concept of "dating" confuses me! is this the same as "seein" someone? its all very bizzare!
i wouldnt even know what dating is! in my experiences in the past, ive met someone and ended up going out with them, (in some cases for a good number of years) but this terminology kinda implies that you can be "dating" more than one person at a time! x

hmm from my understanding (everyones varies i guess)

By "dating" you are basically doing that, going on dates with someone, i suppose you could date more than one person, because your not exactly commited if your just meeting up now and then getting to know each other.


"Seeing" is beyond me, everyone seems to have a totally different understanding of this!

But you can be in a proper relationship with someone and still go for "dates"... Even if you live together.

see right, ive been out with people b4 and only seen them once or twice (like the face licking guy-Sam can run!!!) but does that mean ive dated them?! or just gone out with them for a bev? lmao!
but the concept of "dating" more than one person at the same time just wouldnt enter into my head at all! I would feel all guilty like i was cheatin and stuff! x

IMO, it's a "date" if there is romantic intent...

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Originally Posted by sambalina

see right, ive been out with people b4 and only seen them once or twice (like the face licking guy-Sam can run!!!) but does that mean ive dated them?! or just gone out with them for a bev? lmao!
but the concept of "dating" more than one person at the same time just wouldnt enter into my head at all! I would feel all guilty like i was cheatin and stuff! x

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same here

tbh sam the answer to your dialemma is "who the f*ck knows"

see, so there's no clear answer is there really? different people have different views on what is considered to be dating, there is no specific definition! or is there?!
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It's horrible not being able to curl up in Matt's arms tonight :frown:

Ahhhh feeling all warm and fuzzy after a weekend with my boyfriend ^-^ he's just passed his driving test so he's been driving me around, it's been surreal but lovely :D