^This.
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^This.
I think I'll just stick my head in the sand until it hopefully blows over. :tongue:
He's just gone for lucozade for me when I didn't even ask.
Keeper.
EDIT: I'm on tom's account, weird...
*sigh* wish I had someone. I can think of four people I want to be with emotionally&physically, and much more just physically. But nobody more than my friend. Why am I living like this? Ugh.
How can you be in love with someone yet want to be emotionally and physically involved with three other people?Quote:
Originally Posted by swimmingthroughrain
Maybe it's just me but when I'm in love with someone I don't want to be involved with anyone else at all
I don't know I'm in love and I've had like 4 saucy dreams about bananaman.
Seriously though I don't think being in love completely excludes looking at other people. I personally find I don't fancy anyone else when I'm in a relationship and it's just not anywhere in my head at all but I know some people who while they'd never cheat or leave their partner are physically attracted to others.
I do feel though that the older I get the less I think I know about love. So I could be talking out of my arse and in 5 years have a completely different perspective.
I wasn't trying to be nasty (I can see it might have come across that way) I just don't really understand it. Maybe the physical side of it a little, I mean I still find other people attractive but I can't comprehend being in love with one person yet wanting to be emotionally involved with someone else
I've got to agree with nat here. Sorry but the amount of feeling it takes to be 'in love' you can't and shouldn't be able to feel that for THREE other people one top of the one! That's either lustful wishful thinking or not love at all, and just lust/desperation. No offense. Swimming has been throwing the love word around far too much, considering she has never had a relationship, according to her.
The boy has offered to drive me back to uni in October [as long as he has a suitable vehicle]
This makes me very happy, [a] because it's such a pain getting the train :tongue: and, more importanly [b] I love that he's willing to plan stuff like this in adavance. It's nice that he sees us carrying on.
Also, possibly going to Amsterdam or camping with him and his friends for his birthday, which'll be pretty awesome.
I'm not looking forward to not seeing him for 3 weeks during my exams though. I know it's not that much in the grand scheme of things, but it's longer than we've done before, and I'm going to be so stressed that all I'll want is cuddles and someone telling me it'll be alright :frown:
I'm gonna have to agree too, I don't think it's possible to truly be in love with more person. When I was between my ex and my current boyfriend I said I was still in love with him but the truth of the matter was that as time went on my feelings for him lessened and the ones for Brandon increased. There was never really a point I was fully in love with both of them at the same time because if you really truly love someone there shouldn't be other people in the mix.