I agree with Katie, we've heard a lot about your boy and he seems like the kinda person who wouldn't say it unless they meant it, enjoy the feeling lovely! :) He loves you!
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I agree with Katie, we've heard a lot about your boy and he seems like the kinda person who wouldn't say it unless they meant it, enjoy the feeling lovely! :) He loves you!
Flo, what everyone else said! It doesn't sound like you forced him to tell you at all, if he didn't mean it or want to say it then he would've most likely reassured you by saying that he does like you an awful lot/as much as you like him etc. Going a step further and saying the l word is a massive step and he'll have known that. (:
On another note.. my boyfriend told me he loved me way back in february, and has said it again quite a few times including yesterday when I last saw him, I still haven't said it back even though I feel the same, it's just so scary! Why does love and all things involved have to be so complicated.
Flo I hate to be all doom and gloom but maybe you should talk to him about it, people do say "I love you" and not mean it and it's better that you get things straight now rather than finding out down the line. I'm not saying that is the case, it's probably not and I really hope it isn't, just saying it does happen and it's best to find out straight away whether he meant it or whether he just thought it was what you wanted to hear
Sorry if I sound really horrible but I've been there and it's not nice
I just had to leave the flat for a while and gather my thoughts. Bf is still getting depressed and he totally shut down tonight, I asked him what was wrong and I got "nothing" and then he lay on the sofa and shut his eyes and when I tried to hug him he told me to leave him alone.
I couldn't stand it so I got up and left and went to see my horse. He texted and called to ask where I was but I ignored him. I'm just back home and he seems like he was genuinely worried. And it sounds awful but I'm glad. I want him to know how hard it is to be ignored and to feel alone and unsure of what's happening. Because that's how I've felt for the past few weeks.
I know he loves me and I know he's depressed and it's not necessarily about anything I've done but I don't think he realises how hard it is to be trying my best to help and get nothing back in return. I just feel like I'm the one suggesting things to do, I'm the ones who craves cuddles and kisses. I told him I feel like he doesn't want me here and he said he really does.
I'm just a mess since this break a few weeks ago. It's screwed my head up. I never used to doubt us as a couple, I was always so convinced we were perfect for each other. ANd I still am but I just need a bit more reassurance than he's giving me right now
*e hugs tegoz* if he is depressed his head will be all over the place, best thing i can think of is just to help him through it and once hes through it talk to him about what youve been feeling, he needs all the help he can get right now, the thought of his GF leaving him or something like that will only upset him and might make him worse. Depression is evil and can tear people apart , dont let it happen to you .
on another note, bens parents are away for a week and ive got a week/ off work so we have the house to ourselves .............. nommmy
I second what Bekki says. I hope everything turns out alright.
Today my feelings about relationships are "aaaaaarrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrgggggggggggggghhhhhhhhh h"
I'm sure it shouldnt be this much hard work.
Ok...so what do you do when you realise you're falling for your boyfriends brother (who you also live with) and last night he confessed the same?
Wow thats a hell of a situation to be in.
I think you need to be honest with yourself and think about whether its just a crush or if its something more. How long have you been with your boyfriend? Obviously dont do anything while your still with your boyfriend.
Although i would say that things must not be going great if your having these feelings about someone else especially his brother.