depending on what he is like thats easier said than done haha. If i say anything he takes it as a personal insult about his manhood etc :(
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depending on what he is like thats easier said than done haha. If i say anything he takes it as a personal insult about his manhood etc :(
Well I mentioned it yesterday but I don't want to make it a big deal, because it isn't. And it's all me making me feel blargh not him. He's stressed and tired from work he shouldn't feel like he has to come home and please me or I'll get upset, that's just unfair.
You'll have to coax him into the shower or something. ;)
This sounds like a really sucky situation. But the thing is, it's not working for you and you should let him know. Otherwise you're just going to go on being unhappy. He may be stressed and everything, but you're not happy with how things are and you have to tell him that or nothing will change. You say it's unfair to tell him you're unhappy, but it's unfair that you're not getting what you want.Quote:
Originally Posted by Youki-Hi
Just my opinion.
It's not really unhappy...it's frustrated.
And Jane, our bathroom is not very sexy and it's cold in there.
I know I'll feel better when I'm not on time of the month...it always makes me feel really bloated and gross. I might have another word with him about it sometime this week too. Just so I'm being clear.
Make him eat sexy food Genni, I'm sure there's something you could do.
I used to very 'meh don't care' about 'cake', but these days its quite fun to be able to go 'you 'cake' NOAW!' haha.
Being frustrated isn't that great either.
I know how you feel Genni! I think the last time we had cake was about a week ago and I tried to get some yesterday morning but he just had a meal then went back to bed! I asked him last night but he said maybe and it never happened, didn't seem to be in the mood. I asked AGAIN today when he woke up and I just got a maybe again! I'm starting my period on Thursday so I wanted some cake eating time fit in before nothing can happen at all.
Gotta add to the conversation for men and say that I honestly don't understand the word `no` in a baking context :S. Anyway, congrats Louise! Gonna come back and visit? :P
I have to say this, I apologise in advance but...
Some men don't mind their cake on the gooey side >.<