Teacups make me feel ill... Cake + tea cups.. No thank you! :DQuote:
Originally Posted by Flo[ProActiv]
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Teacups make me feel ill... Cake + tea cups.. No thank you! :DQuote:
Originally Posted by Flo[ProActiv]
Yeah, wouldn't want to chuck halfway through!
No, tends to ruin the moment somewhat.Quote:
Originally Posted by Flo[ProActiv]
I work on those damn teacups.. If any of you try 'cake' in one of my cups, I will be reminding you 'this is a teacup ride, NOT a tea party'.. this conversation is hurting my brain..Quote:
Originally Posted by Flo[ProActiv]
My OH is back in Australia, looks like I'll be waiting a while for any cake =(
LOL!!!!!
This is an epic conversation that is not helping my cakeless singledom at all!!!
I prefer pancakes!
*sulks off to the singles thread*
:D
On the topic of sex drive, the right time to have sex, and it being essential in a relationship..
I had sex with my first boyfriend after about 9 months and even though I was only 14 I was okay with it and still am because we had feelings for each other. In the almost 3 and a half years we dated though we only had sex 4 times! We did mess around A LOT but we didn't find much time to be alone and have sex and then he moved away after a bit over a year and I only saw him twice in the next 2 and a half years. Doesn't really help with that situation obviously. I did stay with him for long enough that it's obvious sex wasn't the most important seeing as we rarely ever did it. I always had a high sex drive though!
With Brandon, things are different. We had sex about a month before we even started dating. That was completely okay with both of us even though we only liked each other a decent amount and had only really started hanging out a month or two before that, though we had been talking for about 8 months by then. We had sex quite often when we first got together, as often as we could really, sometimes more than once a day. Now that we've been together over a year and see each other every day, we don't do it as much, few times a week at the most. I think it's partially due to that we're really lazy and it's so much work and also because we like to just enjoy each others company, talk, and cuddle most of the time. It can be either of us who initiate it, but it's usually me in the morning. He tends to feel put out when I deny him but I feel the same when he does it to me. It's understandable but sometimes it can be downright frustrating! I'm sure once we see each other a lot less often it will be something we do a lot though. :p I may have to wake him up in a bit for a round..hm haha.
I have to agree with the frustratingness that is men deciding they're not in the mood!
Since my 'first time' I found that I had a pretty high sex drive and my ex didn't so I found I initiated it a lot.
After him, things weren't too bad.
Then I met current boyfriend. At first it was just like CONSTANT cake demolishing.
Now it's calmed down a lot. He's a bloody old man sometimes and promises cake but then ends up being too tired and falling asleep! Although I'm terrible for doing that too. Also, TMI perhaps but he lasts quite a while and gets distracted very easily, i.e getting too hot really puts him off. Also when he's had a drink he could probably try for hours without any results.
I feel bad, I'm there all satisfied and he's p*ssed off because the drink has just ensured it's not gonna happen for him so he has to just stop haha!
That's actually pretty true, I've ended up naked a few of times in front of people the first I met them, I find it makes me feel more comfortable if everyone has something to laugh at.Quote:
Originally Posted by .Only.Streetlights.
I'm sure they don't laugh!
*sounds like a perv and giant come on*
Well my attempt at getting a slice of cake failed!
He ended up getting some of a meal (this is my metaphor for foreplay because dessert comes after the meal! :tongue:), finishing, cuddling with me, then going back to bed! ><