General Relationship Thread

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Originally Posted by IckleNatStar

Do you really think making him jealous will work? If I was him and I heard that you'd pulled some other bloke I'd just think you were doing a damn good job of getting over me. Childish game playing like that only hurts people and causes problems

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TBH the more I think about everything that's happened the slimmer the chance I would have of wanting him back anyway. I'm slowly moving on. And if that means getting other guy's numbers and getting a *tiny* kiss goodnight, then fine. I'm putting all my effort into having fun now. He didn't bother to think much about me when he was emailing her while I was lying in bed next to him. I'm coming to the conclusion his actions are unforgivable.

Which is quite a nice feeling. It makes me feel a little bit more in control at last

Fair enough, it's good that you're moving on

On the better halfs friend subject I've not really met John's friends after almost two years lol he's too worried about it, I've walked past his mate Dean and one of his overly butch RAF female friends but not properly met any one, I've never spoken to them.

But then again he's only ever met the two Lucy's I know I don't have a massive friend base though.

EDIT: I've never made a habit or looking at wanting to meet friends new partners either because I usually hate them.

I only add my friends boyfriends if I've met them already usually, I tend to feel like a creep otherwise :tongue:
A lot of my friends seem to friend Brandon on Facebook after they meet, but I take it as a good sign and meaning the like him.

Soon as it came up on FB that we were together half his family and friends added me in the first 20mins. I accepted and I've met some of them.

I've just come back from an awesome night at his but apparently I'm an annoying sleeper so he pinned me down... there I was thinking he was hugging me :( lol!!!

Admin fee and application forms all sent off for the flat, we should be able to move in around the start of next month! It'll take us a month to be properly there though as his parents are going away for the last 2 weeks of July and he'll have to carry on living in their house to look after the dog then, haha. I am exciteddd although not looking forward to having to leave for work 15 minutes earlier :tongue:

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Originally Posted by IckleNatStar

Fair enough, it's good that you're moving on

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Trying to. Not too sure how well it's working but I'm trying so hard not to think about what he's doing without me.

I went to the doctor who's put me on Beta Blockers to help my anxiety. I was getting the shakes, had no appetite, was being sick, had headaches and pins and needles and every night I've had nightmares and woken up in a cold sweat. I only got them yesterday so fingers crossed they help a bit :(

But yeah, just the thought that he's talked to her about going out or the thought that he might even be doing it already...or that she's maybe not even interested and he's maybe changed his mind but is too proud to tell me...and of that is enough to stress me out right now. So I'm trying to fill my head and my time with lots of other things.

I wonder if he's been feeling any of this?

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Originally Posted by Tegoz_Marianos

I wonder if he's been feeling any of this?

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Dont wonder things like that,,it really wont help anything.

On the boyfriend's friends thing... Robin doesn't really seem to have any friends :S. His best friend moved back to Canada and another friend moved back to Ireland, all the people he knew from uni moved away after graduation. I wouldn't accept adds/add his friends unless I'd met them, I've met the Canadian and the Irishman (Gavin) but only very briefly each time, however Gavin is in the same guild on WoW and we talk a lot on there when he gets a chance to play. His family's not into Facebook thankfully, so no problems there. He's got a mate at work called Chris who he goes out for drinks with about once a month maybe. My friends at Rock Soc became his friends too after we got together and he came out to more events, but we never see them anymore due to money. I was feeling quite melancholic once and said "we're two loners, destined to be alone together" and the sadness of that made me cry :/.

I seem to have met all of the boy's friends, except one (ie Cazarama), they all seem lovely and I've not had any issues with any of them, which I didn't think I would!

He's hardly met any of mine, I have quite a few more friends than him, but his friends are more likely to stay with him for a long time compared to a lot of mine, he's met the important ones and he gets on with them, which makes me very happy. It's nice to share him with close friends as my family can be quite stand offish a lot of the time.