Maybe that's why you're bickering? You're obviously worried about missing him when he won't be there next year and he probably is too, could be stressing you both and making you both more prone to snapping?
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Maybe that's why you're bickering? You're obviously worried about missing him when he won't be there next year and he probably is too, could be stressing you both and making you both more prone to snapping?
Tbh he doesn't seem too fussed about it because he's just living in the moment unlike me who's been stressing about it insanely.
I think the main issue is that he says something meant to be harmless but I take it the wrong way because I'm used to having defend myself at home. Being on my lady time probably isn't helping either. :tongue:
Either way I'm going to try as hard as I can to enjoy the next few days, I'm really going to miss sleeping next to him every night this summer. :(
TMI from me here but I'm not the only one!!!!!!! I find it worse with tampons but it still feels weird with a mooncup too...Quote:
Originally Posted by bekki2308
Actually feels like my relationship has got stronger and stronger for a little while it seemed fairly eh due to work stresses, sheer lack of sleep on my part and me being grumpy plus having my mum stay etc... So we weren't initimate at all, no cuddling up either really. But now I have hopefully another interview for a new job, we have a few days off together and an Ann Summers party later and I just want to squidge him all the time. lol plus he has said we can get some kittens when we have a house, bring on the shared ownerships!!!!! He's fallen in love with Maine Coon's lol score!
Well the 'let's enjoy this time together and stop fighting' thing didn't work out, we got in another fight today. However, I do think I was completely justified in this situation.
Brandon's been sleeping all day and about an hour ago me and my roommate started to deloft our beds because it needs to be done before we move out. He woke up to see us struggling (the beds are metal and very heavy and hard to move) because we're both 90 some pound girls and not very strong. I asked him to help us move it and instead of saying okay or even giving me an answer he just stared and didn't say a word. I asked him again and he still ignored me. Of course I got pissed so I told him to stop being an arsehole and get out of bed and help. I know name calling is never any good but I was getting blatantly ignored and we really needed the help. The bed accidentally ended up on top of his lap top (totally an accident!) and he got really pissed off saying I broke it. Then he started doubting me about delofting the beds, saying it doesn't make sense and basically making me feel like an idiot, as if I had misunderstood what my RA said when I didn't. Then he started yelling so I raised my voice a bit and then he stormed out and we haven't talked since.
I'm really getting so tired of this, all I want is for everything to be okay.
Yeah, I think that's completely justified.
I think he probably is worrying about it, just even he hasn't realised it because it's all subconscious. It's one of those silly things everyone does, I know before Simon and I went LD for a while we got really snappy with each other. I think it's a subconscious "if we argue we won't miss each other so much" thing.
It's just sh*t because I feel like we should be happy and enjoying each other instead of fighting. We've talked since the fight but nothing is being solved, I think I'm in the right and he thinks he is. I apologized for calling him an arsehole but I don't feel bad about getting angry because I think it was deserved. He hasn't apologized at all and I feel like he just doesn't care which is just upsetting me and now I feel like nothing is going to be solved. I just bought him food since he's run out and he goes, 'You don't have to be here if you don't want to', which I just read as 'I don't want you here', so I left. So awkward and horrible and I have exams this week so this is not helping.
Wait and Bleed, or Raining Blood?Quote:
Originally Posted by Maark
Wow, Alexandra...that sucks. You should tell him how his behavior makes you feel, he obviously doesn't realize.
You're not the only one...I just turned 26, I've never been with anyone. It's really frustrating and there's no end in sight. I'm actually kind of scared, honestly. I try not to think about it but I can't shake the feeling I'm not normal.Quote:
Originally Posted by bluerghgal
We've talked it out and things weren't really solved per se, but he did come over a couple hours later and I was upset and crying at first and sometime after he held me and kissed me so I think the fight is over. This is usually how things happen.Quote:
Originally Posted by swimmingthroughrain