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Yeah, I guess it has it's pros and cons...
Gah, I always think about how I'd feel being with someone for 25+ years (or probably 10 or something) and suddenly they're not around. The Mark Speight thing springs to mind, tbh, I'd probably do the same in his position... :frown:
THings have really turned around with me and my fella. We're getting on really well. I think I really scared him the other week and he's realized he can't keep treating me like that.
Also I'm happy because I've been offered a flat, I'm moving next weekend :D :D :D
So I'm a happy Helen atm.
Ahhhh I'm SO excited about seeing Jake tonight! However I'm well annoyed too because I've started my period today which screws things up a little, haha. Stupid pills not working. Oh well. God I miss him.
Wonders of having the implant. Not had a period in over 3 years :DQuote:
Originally Posted by katexx
Lucky! I still get periods with the implant.
I got engaged to my fella a couple of months ago, and I can't believe how much of a difference it makes, we're being so much nicer to eachother now! lol
Yeah, I want to go on the implant but not everyones periods stops...I want guarantees, damnit! Right now I just run 3 packs of the pill together before having a break but recently I've started to come on anyway towards the end of the 3rd, which is annoying. There's a new pill coming out in the next few months that you just take non-stop without a break so I'll go on that as soon as I can. Or I might try the implant...can always get it removed if I don't like it I guess.
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Originally Posted by katexx
Yea, I'm one of the 'success stories' :D The implant is great because you don't have to remember to take a pill, also the stats are better on it, you're even else likely to have an accidental pregnancy on it . Which is good when you're in a relationship (getting back on topic :P)
Just to get back on topic(ish) me and Jon broke up this afternoon. Have already wondered into the singles thread.
awh, sorry to hear :(
on a happier note me and the boyfriend are fully blown "I love you" now
hehe I've never been this serious with anyone before :D
squeeeeeee and I'm going away with him and his parents next bank holiday weekend.
Quite nervous, his parents think I'm super super posh. I don't want them to see me as some horrible snobby person! :P
I like that other people wait until they mean it to say it, haha. Far too many times I've had to say it like 2 days into a relationship to avoid pissing the girl off.Quote:
Originally Posted by black_thorn
Waited 3 months into this one though, haha ^^
hehe exactly! I hate all the couples that say it after two minutes of being together it's like.. no! you don't mean it!
I've never said it to any boy before either, I've been adamant forever I was never going to say it till I really really meant it :)
It's been like 4 months :)
I've refused to say it a few times to some people, but that's proven to be relationship-ending on occasion. Not that bothered though, haha.
Was there a reason for the time you said it? Like.. A moment? :)
Aww :(Quote:
Originally Posted by KieraMoon
I hope you're okay.
Haha, silly :tongue: I don't think I've ever said it and not meant it. I think my boyfriend said he loved me about a month and a half after we got together - I remember exactly when actually because it was St Patricks Day and I'd just had a really good night out, haha. He didn't say he was IN love with me until September though. I don't really differentiate between the two that much, but he really does, so I was well happy when he finally said it haha.Quote:
Originally Posted by Sweep
Only 3 or 4 more weeks till I've finished uni and go back home! but still won't see Jake much until June 18th when he finishes his exams =/
I seem to find girls rush into saying it before boys do though :tongue: One actually said it when we weren't even going out. But she was insane so...Quote:
Originally Posted by katexx
But aww ^__^
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I was quite worried cos he first said it to me like 2 months or so after we got together and I duno, I just didn't feel it then, I was worried when I didn't say it back he'd be really upset with me but I thought, surely he'd rather I say it to him and mean it rather than lie to him :)
Hah yehh it was a bit of a moment, we were having a soppy little cuddle and like grabbed my face and was all "argh you're so gorgeous" n then he said something about "you know how much I care about you and what you mean to me" and I was like trying to make him say it to me so I could say it back so I was all "nahh I don't, enlighten me :tongue:" so he was all "I love you" and I was all "I love you too" and it was like :biggrin::biggrin:
hehe I was tempted to draw it on him when he was asleep but.. he'd prolly ignore what it said and just moan at me for drawing on him :tongue:
did you have "the moment" then? :) haha
Completely disagree. In my experience guys say it before girls, and rush into it far more. All my friends have had guys say "I love you" well before they felt it.Quote:
Originally Posted by Sweep
Hahaha aww that's cute ^^
And yeah we kinda had 2 haha.
In like.. October I rented a hotel room so we could.. Go undisturbed for a whole night for once :tongue: But we ended up staying awake all night just cuddling..
Then like the next week we were at a party and for some reason she got upset, so I dragged her upstairs to cheer her up and after like an hour of talkin and cuddling she told me she loved me :):) and she's never said it to anyone before ^^
So I said it back, obviously. It was awesome :D
Really? I've onyl really seen that a couple of times, and it's usually those really clingy annoying guys....Quote:
Originally Posted by Youki-Hi
Haha, I agree. I see loads of girls (none of whom are my friends, thankfully :tongue:) going on about how much they love someone after a few days of getting together. They're usually the people who are really fickle though - 'heartbroken' when they break up with one guy, but madly in love with another the next week. Ergh.Quote:
Originally Posted by Sweep
hehe aww YAYYYYYYY for the "moments"
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Agreed and then I've said it unfortunetly a few times back because I feel guilty if I don't.Quote:
Originally Posted by Youki-Hi
>_> Well I'm single again, in a way it's all for the best so I'm not going to be crying for the next month. New piercing shall do the trick.
My new love I reckon haha :biggrin:
same. only been with my bf for about a month and he has already said i love you, i dont feel like he actually means it tho just saying it for some reason. i've never said it back tho i feel its too earlyQuote:
Originally Posted by Youki-Hi
Speaking from a male perspective. I have never personally been the first to say it, but I think some guys use it as a defence mechanism, thinking "if I say I love you then maybe she might say it back.." and sometimes say it because they're scared of losing there partner. I think people brand it around willy nilly these days without taking any real thought into it being an actual powerful word.
tee hee Liam was like soo drunk yesterday
He was ringing me up like crying cos he thought he was a rubbish boyfriend
He's going to regret that now! :D haha
haha, oh god. I'm glad I never do things like that hahaha
Hahahahaha same xD
heh, my 'moment' was in the middle of a park, in the pouring rain and both me and my boyfriend were soaked through and he stopped walking, turned round and kissed me (our first proper kiss too! haha) and said he loved me, and i said it back straight away just like it was natural. We'd only been going out like 3weeks/month at the time I think..
But we'd been best friends for the past 2years and fancied each other for 1 and half of them 2years.. but we were both too scared to tell each other because we didn't think the other felt the same.. and when we did start going to we did re-think because we didn't want to ruin what we had as best mates. I knew I loved him as a best friend but as soon as we started going out it just felt 'normal' being a couple.
We've been together 2years on the 22nd :D
:) awwww that's so sweet! :D
edit: and yehhh my lad's a moob :P hah he doesn't remember what he said to me today.. I'll make sure he gets reminded!
Damnit, I want a 'moment'! My boyfriend had to get drunk to say it, hahah. We were on the phone at 1am, both wasted, and he kept saying 'lub' (little inside jokey thing that we said to each other :tongue:) and then he was like 'screw the b, it should be love instead' haha.
Ohh I miss him. Home on Friday :D
I don't remember when my boyfriend said it to me for the first time but I do remember when he told me he thought he was falling in love with me :D
On a sad note he went back to uni this afternoon :frown:
That's exactly the same for me and my woman :) The transition from best friends to being a couple was so natural and comfortable. It was excellent :)Quote:
Originally Posted by HOLLY™
And hahaha Kate. Awww ^^
i dont have a nice "moment" either.Quote:
Originally Posted by katexx
hmmm. my boyfriend said it to me first.
my boyfriend said it to me first, but he said it over msn, haha. he spelt it all annoyingly, like 'i luv u' and as someone who firmly believes in proper spelling and grammar, i just didn't accept it :P
i always joke him about it now, but he insists the spelling doesn't matter, haha.
we use 'i love you' pretty much as punctuation these days. i initially thought it might make it less special, but we've been together for over 3 years now and it's still just as special
I said it to my boyfriend after about four months. We were out with friends in a nightclub both absolutely wasted, I turned to him and told him I loved him for the first time and he laughed and threw up down a pillar. Obviously he didnt get a chance to say it back and I felt like a right willy the next morning when I remembered!! Luckily when I told him what I had said he laughed and told me he loved me too.
uh ohhhhh
I'm sensing an argument!
teehee only a petty one.. but still
Haha I love it! I'm toooo aggressive I have to let it all out and it seems to be on him all the time >.<
We were at a party and my boyfriend went to the toilet and just walked up to me and said 'I love you to bits' in my ear! Afterwards he said he wasn't planning on telling me that night, but he'd been thinking it and it just popped out haha.
i told carlu on our 1st date in jan, on worthing seafront, bless and i keep saying, but it never means less than it did
my boyfriend said it to me 1st... we we're being stupid as allways and he said 'I love you jerk!!!!'
now everytime he's being all romantic he calls me jerk... most people think it's stupid, but I think it's sweet... *blushes*
(aas for relationship status today - still being the happiest person alive ^^ :D)
jerk lol thats cute in an odd way
i think carlu calls me bitch sometimes, can never work out why tho lol
it was funny when she held me hand for the 1st time, she was shaking
flipping heck. if someone told me they loved me on a first date id run a mile! :biggrin:Quote:
Originally Posted by gandy