General Relationship Thread

Tomorrow I decided that I'm going to bring Brandon breakfast in bed from the dial downstairs, pop into the store down the street and get him some chocolate, then dinner later! I think he'll love it. :)

On another note, I seriously do not understand how couples can have threesomes. I'm judging no one for doing this, but just the thought of it makes me want to rip my hair out and cry. I wish he'd never told me about his dream. :/ Even though I told him a similar one, but I didn't actually like it. I'm stupid for letting it get to me, I know, but I can't help it.
I know he loves me and doesn't want anyone else but argh. This is what having low self esteem does to you. ><

Edit: Just told him about what was bothering me as he wanted to know and he just got mad, I think it's because he was taking it as I'm pissed off at him, which I'm really not..wish I'd just kept my mouth shut.

You need to learn to let it go.

Fantasies and dreams aren't real. I had a dream a few weeks ago that I was a horse and I married a merman. That doesn't mean that I really would like to have four legs and kiss someone that tastes like fish. I know it's hard but you're going to drive him away if you get upset every time he tells you about a dream he had. It's just a dream.


Our landlady is coming over tomorrow so it probably won't be a very romantic valentines day. Ah well hopefully this year I won't get dumped straight after it!

see what really grinds my gears for current status. Happy flippin valentines day you grumpy git

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Originally Posted by Youki-Hi

You need to learn to let it go.

Fantasies and dreams aren't real. I had a dream a few weeks ago that I was a horse and I married a merman. That doesn't mean that I really would like to have four legs and kiss someone that tastes like fish. I know it's hard but you're going to drive him away if you get upset every time he tells you about a dream he had. It's just a dream.


Our landlady is coming over tomorrow so it probably won't be a very romantic valentines day. Ah well hopefully this year I won't get dumped straight after it!

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I love that! Made me giggle a little.
I know it's not real. It's just the comment he made about it that really bothered me..but you're right...

We exchanged gifts at midnight. Yeah, he got me (and spent) a lot more but... he seems happy enough..

Man, I love him.

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Originally Posted by tacosareyummeh

Tomorrow I decided that I'm going to bring Brandon breakfast in bed from the dial downstairs, pop into the store down the street and get him some chocolate, then dinner later! I think he'll love it. :)

On another note, I seriously do not understand how couples can have threesomes. I'm judging no one for doing this, but just the thought of it makes me want to rip my hair out and cry. I wish he'd never told me about his dream. :/ Even though I told him a similar one, but I didn't actually like it. I'm stupid for letting it get to me, I know, but I can't help it.
I know he loves me and doesn't want anyone else but argh. This is what having low self esteem does to you. ><

Edit: Just told him about what was bothering me as he wanted to know and he just got mad, I think it's because he was taking it as I'm pissed off at him, which I'm really not..wish I'd just kept my mouth shut.

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I just looked back a few pages and I'm not sure if I've missed something.. Do you want to talk about it Alexandra? I'm always here for you to talk if you want to..

No you haven't missed anything, it's just something I thought about today.
I'm pretty much over it now, but my self esteem is incredibly low and sometimes things like that can get to me, even though I know it's not real life.
Thanks for the offer though, anytime I need someone to talk to I'll be sure to come to you. :)

Alex, try to ignore it. You won't ever have a boyfriend who doesn't occasionally dream or fantasize over that stuff. Its just in the nature haha. Plus you'd be suprised how much it could actually be about you. When i was with Danielle, i had a huge 3some fantasy, and she err, well liked to talk about it a lot haha. It never happened btw. Anyway, i'm not interested in them right now. It seems like it was a fantasy that only around because I had someone I wanted to be part of it. That sounds really messed up, but as a single person, i have nobody to show off to, and nobody in particular to get off to on watching them have fun.

Ok, that was probably the crappest way of putting it, but i'm just trying to say i've only really had the whole 3some fantasy when things were good between me and Danielle, because she was the person who I'd really have wanted to share the experience with.

Go fantasize about Brad Pitt doing stuff to you haha. Its fun, but it means nothing :)

Totally right of course.
I fantasize about them too sometimes, but it's never with two guys. Mainly just because I'm curious what it would be like I think. He did mention that in theory, it would be fun, but in reality it would be just weird. I think the part that got to me was when he said he enjoyed it in the dream cause he had the other girls boobs to look at. ><
In the end I know it really means nothing though. He's happy with me as far as I know..it's just trying to get over the things that my thoughts like to tell me, like not being good enough.
It's funny because before we dated we would talk about it and how we would definitely do it, but things changed once we started dating because obviously there's an emotional attachment now.

I think some guys just like boobs. And it's not always about sex. My ex loved boobs and even though he thought mine were lovely he would love to have another pair in the room aswell. Just because he loved boobs.

I wouldn't worry. He obviously thinks that you're stunningly gorgeous and completely sexy. I think the dream just confirms that. I think dreaming about a threesome shows he trusts you because he'd feel comfortable sharing something like that with you, and it also shows that he sees you as an incredibly sexy being.