Alex you can PM me to
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Alex you can PM me to
Thanks everyone :)
I too say you can, though by now I'm sure you have enough ears. :tongue:
For future reference :)
I'm always happy for you to pm / fbchat me if you need a chat, dunno if it helps or not that I'm closer? :/
Blaaaaah.
I've been drinking again tonight, which has led to me missing the boy immensely. I sent him an overemonitional text to which I've had no reply [not particularly expecting one since I know he goes to bed ealry, but something would have been nice]. Also, this has reinforced my feeling that I like him more that me.
Also also, why do people keep asking me for relatinoship advice? In the last few days, 2 peole have asked me for advice, and I have no idea what to say [Also doesn't help that these are two people who I have a minor crush on. I feel super bad about it, but I love Benji, I really do. it's just that I get on really well with these guys and every so oftne, when I'm having a bad time, I do have those thoughts of what if? Am I a bad person?]
So long as it stays at what if then you're not a bad person Flobear :)
I'm in agreement with Carlyn on that. Just make sure you don't let yourself be encouraged, or if you are thinking what if, remind yourself why you love Benji, and you'll go all "meh" over the other guys.
And most of it is probably because they're near and he's far. So it's natural to think "it would be easier if..." Hell knows I've had loads of those thoughts over my best friend (who is super gay but also in denial about it) just because it would be easier. It's not a real crush, it's a crush on the idea of simplicity.
"It's not a real crush, it's a crush on the idea of simplicity"
Very well put Genni. I think a majority of people who have been in a long distance relationship can relate to that.
Well, it's nearly two weeks since my boy has been gone, and my god, has it been a rollercoaster. I was an emotional wreck, and took time off of college, and then I turned into a monster!
It's all too easy for me to blame it on my bi-polar, but I know that I'm an adult and I should learn to control my behaviour, my emotions, and what I say. - Easier said than done.
It makes me upset that he's away for so long, and missing dates like our 6 month anniversary and Valentines day, etc. But I need to grow up and see that it's not his fault he had to go.
I need to be ruled by logic, not my emotions!
Well anyways, life is a learning curb, and hopefully I can make it up to him and apologise for being such a mardy cow.
One more week to go.
I miss him so much :(
That's exactly it Genni.Quote:
Originally Posted by Youki-Hi
Thanks guys, I'm feeling better today. I think it just doesn't help that I get quite emotional when I drink, both happy and sad.
Anyway, this time tomorrow, I'll be with him. I really can't wait ^_^
I'm doing all my work tonight so I can have a nice stressfree weekend,