:frown: whats happened Jordan?
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:frown: whats happened Jordan?
Things have just been really bad and I havnt spoken to him since he hung up on me last night...and i sent very angry texts.
Lately he just has a problem with the way i am. I am a very angry person, I have alot of issues, stemming mainly from other issues and so on. I've been this angry, defiant, stubborn person since i was 13, i can't change it now, not because he is so sensitive he wants to take offense to everything or thinks we are breaking up just because ive had ago at him. Also he doesn't seem to get that if i think he's done sometihng wrong/to upset me, i am going to get mad, that's how i get upset rather than crying and whining. It's like being with my ex, he just doesn't get when he's done something wrong.
It's just got to the point where I don't want to hear what a horrible person i am anymore and can't be arsed to argue anymore.
Gah. This has been going on for so long, it feels weird talking about it after bottling it up. Tried telling my friend today on the phone, she wasn't interested tbh.
I'm really down atm aswell which isn't helping matters at all.
Thats rubbish Jordan :( men are pretty useless at understanding why when they do something that upsets/annoys us we can get mad and dont just cry. If you want to chat my PM box / facebook inbox is always open :)
Thanks :) It's just got to the point where I can't be arsed anymore and I'm finding it harder and harder to talk to people because of this crap with Jon, I'm bottling up more and more. Also doesn't help with what happened with that so called mate of mine.
Haha I'm the same Jordan, Andy's very laid back and doesn't understand when I get upset or frustrated about things like traffic and late buses etc, especially if I'm trying to get somewhere. He doesn't get why I get angry about things I can't change and I try and explain I'm not angry, just frustrated and that he'd know if I was angry!
I'm generally very angry and have a quick temper.
I would never have thought you have a quick temper or anything, you always seem to calm and collected, whereas im sure i've proved on more than one occassion that i have a temper and its gets me into trouble :)
Oddly enough a lot of people say that, I tend to be inwardly angry a lot and don't lash out as much as I used to but it's very easy to get me wound up :D
Wow, wish i had your restraint in that case lol.
I recently got out of something very, very similar. We had been dating for almost 2 years. A lot of people won't understand as not everyone knows love as well as others. The biggest thing I can say is that communication means EVERYTHING. If communication stops then everything stops. If he's not willing to listen and acknowledge the things that may be going wrong, then it really shows that he doesn't care.
At which a point you may find yourself asking, if he doesn't care why should I?
I know it may be very difficult to get over the past, but the best thing you can both do is just LOVE each other...because once it's gone and you know what love feels like, it's all you want.
It's my boyfriend's 21st in 10 days, I don't have a clue what to get him, especially now he's said he wants something ''useful'' :| I have £50 max to spend. GAH!