General Relationship Thread

[KieraMoon]

My bf just told me he can't come over for my 21st. It's just one disappointment after another. I don't know what to do anymore.

[Youki-Hi]

Snap. But my one wants to move out yet theres nothing wrong with the relationship! Now I remember why I swore never to date someone the same age as me...

To put things from his point of view though if you guys last, which he's assuming, then he's going to live with you forever, however he's never going to have the opportunity to live with his friends again. I know I'm not going to move in with my bloke until after uni because I want to live with my friends, it's not that I don't want to live with him, it's just that I can't live with my friends after uni but I can live with him after uni. What's a couple of years compared to a lifetime?

[Laura - Marie]

My bf just told me he can't come over for my 21st. It's just one disappointment after another. I don't know what to do anymore.

How come he cant come over?

[KieraMoon]

How come he cant come over?

He has to do a course for work. It's not that, it was just how he did it over msn. It's like he didn't care.

[Laura - Marie]

He has to do a course for work. It's not that, it was just how he did it over msn. It's like he didn't care.

Yeh I can understand why you would be a little ticked off, I would!


ps. Have a nice bday (for whenever it is haha)!!

[Mazzawa]

To put things from his point of view though if you guys last, which he's assuming, then he's going to live with you forever, however he's never going to have the opportunity to live with his friends again. I know I'm not going to move in with my bloke until after uni because I want to live with my friends, it's not that I don't want to live with him, it's just that I can't live with my friends after uni but I can live with him after uni. What's a couple of years compared to a lifetime?

Hey Youki, thanks for that. That was the kick up the backside I needed to realise his side of the story cause everyone has been in agreeance with me and I've just thought that surely staying is the only solution. But you're right, thanks

P.S I've pm'd you.

[.Only.Streetlights.]

My relationship of over 3 years ended last night. I'm an absolute wreck. All I can suggest is that people really make a true effort to never take what they have for granted.

[angelsallfire]

Caz.. i'm so sorry to hear that :(

[Hazzard]

My relationship of over 3 years ended last night. I'm an absolute wreck. All I can suggest is that people really make a true effort to never take what they have for granted.

I know nothing we random forum members say will help in the slightest, but I'm really sorry. *Hugs*

[emmmma]

*kazillions of hugs Caz*, you know where I am if you need me

[.Only.Streetlights.]

It does help a bit. I've seen you and Becky face to face which always helps a bit...

I'm just a bit of wreck.

EDIT: And Emmma's a star lol

[KieraMoon]

*hugs Caz* I know what your saying about taking for granted. lots of love.

[Intra_venus]

*hugs* I cant imagine how you feel, hope you feel better. Eat nice things and maybe buy a little hamster to make you happy!

My boyf has been a stroppy git recently and i was getting worried that maybe we'd end up just drifting apart, but last night, I had a really good night with him. He let m e squeeze his hand really hard when I was getting pierced, and was just really nice, so I have some hope restored!

[Foostar]

I'm sorry to hear that Caz... I know words on a website probably can't do much, but my PM box is hanging around if you need me.

[gandy]

All I can suggest is that people really make a true effort to never take what they have for granted.

i never do, i know from bitter past that i have to tell people how a feel about them, for all i know i could never see them again, i tell carlu i love her allll the time, evan tho i say it loads, it never means anything less, all i can say is sorry hun, he lives in shoreham so ill find him, and bitch slap him