General Relationship Thread

[Mazzawa]

Thats the same with me too :( *hugs to you lot*

Maybe we're the sad ones??

*Thinks*

Nah, we're right, they're wrong!

[KieraMoon]

Exunkly

[Necron]

I 'liked' a 33 year old... wrong? (I was 21 at the time).

Not to me. To be honest, most of the time I can't stand women my age.

[Mazzawa]

Well thats it decided, the bf is moving out for next year. So now I need a flatmate and there is no one... great.

[KieraMoon]

Well thats it decided, the bf is moving out for next year. So now I need a flatmate and there is no one... great.

I really don't understand why he's moving out.... *hugs*

[fear_the_shedevil]

*hugs* Men eh?

[Mazzawa]

God I hate him. Hes put me in such a difficult situation. I need to earn enough during the summer to not only pay for my living and running of the flat next term for 9 months but also for living and expenses during the summer... Or I need to get a flatmate I can trust, which after the last episode I am so, so wary of getting one...
:(

[KieraMoon]

God I hate him. Hes put me in such a difficult situation. I need to earn enough during the summer to not only pay for my living and running of the flat next term for 9 months but also for living and expenses during the summer... Or I need to get a flatmate I can trust, which after the last episode I am so, so wary of getting one...
:(

Yea, know that feeling too. Im never going to share with any one ever again unless it's a bf. Not worth the effort or risk.

[KatyLibby]

Ive been with my boyfriend 3 1/2 years. We got together on my Gap Year and spent pretty much all our time together, seeing each other every day etc. Then I went away to uni (he didn't - he's 4 years older and already working) which is about 3 hours away by car. We still saw each other every weekend though and to be honest, being apart in the week meant that when we saw each other at weekends, we really enjoyed and made the most of our time together. Fast forward to my third year at uni (now) and because I study Spanish, I have to spend a year in a Spanish speaking country. So now Im working in Gran Canaria and I have seen my boyfriend for a grand total of 18 days in the last six months which has been pretty rubbish. However, I wouldnt change anything - spending some time apart I think has been really good for us. We've both been able to do our 'own thing' for a bit which has been really cool i.e. making new friends etc. We both trust each other implicitly and make the effort to speak on the phone, webcam, send letters, parcels etc and I have to say we are as in love as ever (sicky I know) So I think my point is that long distance relationships CAN work - if anything being apart from my lovely boy has made me appreciate him more and make more of an effort with him when we are together. Sorry about the essay...!!

[KieraMoon]

Ive been with my boyfriend 3 1/2 years. We got together on my Gap Year and spent pretty much all our time together, seeing each other every day etc. Then I went away to uni (he didn't - he's 4 years older and already working) which is about 3 hours away by car. We still saw each other every weekend though and to be honest, being apart in the week meant that when we saw each other at weekends, we really enjoyed and made the most of our time together. Fast forward to my third year at uni (now) and because I study Spanish, I have to spend a year in a Spanish speaking country. So now Im working in Gran Canaria and I have seen my boyfriend for a grand total of 18 days in the last six months which has been pretty rubbish. However, I wouldnt change anything - spending some time apart I think has been really good for us. We've both been able to do our 'own thing' for a bit which has been really cool i.e. making new friends etc. We both trust each other implicitly and make the effort to speak on the phone, webcam, send letters, parcels etc and I have to say we are as in love as ever (sicky I know) So I think my point is that long distance relationships CAN work - if anything being apart from my lovely boy has made me appreciate him more and make more of an effort with him when we are together. Sorry about the essay...!!

I know what you're saying and I do sometimes feel bad because I moan about not seeing my guy when I know people who see theirs less. And I'm really pleased for you too. How lucky are you!

[Dollymix]

have seen my boyfriend for a grand total of 18 days in the last six months which has been pretty rubbish.

I know how this feels. My boyfriend and I live in different countries and it is difficult. He was ill and missed a visit so I saw him this week for the first time in over three months. The hardest bit is parting again. It leaves me feeling so ...bleh and empty. He went home last night so, thats us till May sometime. :(
Still we have been doing this for four years now and whilst it's hard- if you love one another, you'll make it work.

[fear_the_shedevil]

It's good to hear that people can last in this type of situation. It gives me more hope

[KieraMoon]

It's good to hear that people can last in this type of situation. It gives me more hope

Yea, same here.

[Laura - Marie]

Ive been with my boyfriend 3 1/2 years. We got together on my Gap Year and spent pretty much all our time together, seeing each other every day etc. Then I went away to uni (he didn't - he's 4 years older and already working) which is about 3 hours away by car. We still saw each other every weekend though and to be honest, being apart in the week meant that when we saw each other at weekends, we really enjoyed and made the most of our time together. Fast forward to my third year at uni (now) and because I study Spanish, I have to spend a year in a Spanish speaking country. So now Im working in Gran Canaria and I have seen my boyfriend for a grand total of 18 days in the last six months which has been pretty rubbish. However, I wouldnt change anything - spending some time apart I think has been really good for us. We've both been able to do our 'own thing' for a bit which has been really cool i.e. making new friends etc. We both trust each other implicitly and make the effort to speak on the phone, webcam, send letters, parcels etc and I have to say we are as in love as ever (sicky I know) So I think my point is that long distance relationships CAN work - if anything being apart from my lovely boy has made me appreciate him more and make more of an effort with him when we are together. Sorry about the essay...!!

Thats really sweet, good that your also enjoying it

[Youki-Hi]

It's weird, my boyfriend and I are apart from one another for the Easter holiday. I've not felt really sad yet, but I've done Long Distance before so it's not really an issue. He's taking it pretty hard though.